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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 382289" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>You need to plan carefully, put the exit plan in place. The furniture and the house could be a sticking point, because on paper at least, he took leave to take care of you and this is how he could make it look. The furniture - it was HIS mother's. You might need to give it you her grandchildren, before you actually file. Ask your lawyer.</p><p></p><p>He sounds like my eldest sister's ex. He also had the habit of making money disappear, even money sent to the kids by his parents, he would intercept the mail and take the money, leaving my sister to think that her in-laws didn't care about their grandchildren, because they never sent so much as a card, let alone money for a gift (they lived overseas). My ex-brother in law also had mistresses here and there, plus had secret bank accounts everywhere. Creep.</p><p></p><p>So whatever you need to do to safeguard yourself and your children's inheritance, do it. It sounds like you've already paid him more than he has a right to (or he has taken it for himself).</p><p></p><p>So do your homework, talk to your lawyer in detail and if you need to, remove assets from auditable reach.</p><p></p><p>My brother knew he was headed for bankruptcy (his company got embezzled from under him, he had mortgaged his own home to help save it, to no avail). So before the auditors came, my brother brought us some artwork and valuables that he didn't want to lose, for sentimental reasons. We kept it for him until everything was sorted out. Technically it's not right, but I knew it wasn't his expensive pieces, it was the stuff his wife's parents had left, the stuff tat was important to them emotionally. They had a lot of other valuable stuff that they were not so emotionally attached to. In the end, they managed to trade out and not declare bankruptcy. </p><p></p><p>Go for it. But whatever you choose to do, do it wholeheartedly and stick to your decision. No looking back.</p><p></p><p>As for why would a man cheat, whose wife spoils him like that? It's simple - some men don't value what they get every day. Look at Hugh Grant, cheating on Liz Hurley with Divine Brown. What man in his right mind, with a girlfriend like Liz Hurley, would even LOOK at another woman?</p><p></p><p>Some men just do.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 382289, member: 1991"] You need to plan carefully, put the exit plan in place. The furniture and the house could be a sticking point, because on paper at least, he took leave to take care of you and this is how he could make it look. The furniture - it was HIS mother's. You might need to give it you her grandchildren, before you actually file. Ask your lawyer. He sounds like my eldest sister's ex. He also had the habit of making money disappear, even money sent to the kids by his parents, he would intercept the mail and take the money, leaving my sister to think that her in-laws didn't care about their grandchildren, because they never sent so much as a card, let alone money for a gift (they lived overseas). My ex-brother in law also had mistresses here and there, plus had secret bank accounts everywhere. Creep. So whatever you need to do to safeguard yourself and your children's inheritance, do it. It sounds like you've already paid him more than he has a right to (or he has taken it for himself). So do your homework, talk to your lawyer in detail and if you need to, remove assets from auditable reach. My brother knew he was headed for bankruptcy (his company got embezzled from under him, he had mortgaged his own home to help save it, to no avail). So before the auditors came, my brother brought us some artwork and valuables that he didn't want to lose, for sentimental reasons. We kept it for him until everything was sorted out. Technically it's not right, but I knew it wasn't his expensive pieces, it was the stuff his wife's parents had left, the stuff tat was important to them emotionally. They had a lot of other valuable stuff that they were not so emotionally attached to. In the end, they managed to trade out and not declare bankruptcy. Go for it. But whatever you choose to do, do it wholeheartedly and stick to your decision. No looking back. As for why would a man cheat, whose wife spoils him like that? It's simple - some men don't value what they get every day. Look at Hugh Grant, cheating on Liz Hurley with Divine Brown. What man in his right mind, with a girlfriend like Liz Hurley, would even LOOK at another woman? Some men just do. Marg [/QUOTE]
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