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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 527872" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Our psychiatric told us to NOT BELIEVE anything he said - and follow him to check up on even him going to the bathroom. It was exhausting but after six weeks? The majority of the lying stopped - because you get tired of people in the same house follwing you EVERYWHERE and saying (AND I REPEAT) </p><p></p><p>"Well I'll have to follow you - and make sure because EVERY WORD THAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH IS A LIE AND UNLESS I SEE IT FOR MYSELF? I DO NOT BELIEVE A THING THAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH." </p><p></p><p>He'd say - I'm going to the bathroom - </p><p>I'd get up and say "Okay I'm going to follow and see." </p><p>He'd get annoyed - but I'd follow and he'd slam the door and scream "I'm in here see?" and I would say "YES, I believe you, I followed you. I believe that you are in the bathroom. You told the truth. Thank you. </p><p></p><p>He'd say - I'm going to my room - </p><p>Id get up and say "Okay I'm going to follow and see." </p><p>Hed get annoyed - But I'd follow and he'd go in the room anyway and yell "I'm in here see?" and i would say "Yup, I believe you, I followed you. I believe that you are in the bedroom. You told the truth. Thank you. </p><p></p><p>He'd say - I'm going outside in the yard - </p><p>I'd get up and follow him outside </p><p>He'd say "LEAVE ME ALONE - I'm just going outside"</p><p>I'd say "Nope If I don't see you do something, I don't believe you - You lie about the simplest things - so I have to follow you to make sure you are telling me the truth about anything." </p><p></p><p>Then he'd walk back in the door and say "HA I did'nt go outside I"M INSIDE so THERE....nyeah." </p><p>And I'd say "Oh you changed your mind? I see - Thats not lying that's changing your mind. Lying would have been saying you were going to go down to your friends house, and then going to the store. Changing your mind isn't lying - but you let me know where you were so you were NOT lying." </p><p></p><p>Even if he went into the kitchen.......it made him nuts - and when he did lie? He got to stand in the corner with his nose in it....for 3 full minutes. If he took his nose out? Time started over. HE HATED that. But three minutes nose in - no turning......then I would say punishment over - you may resume your activities or would you like to play a game or go for a walk.....just to let him know punishment over, anger over - 'thing' over. </p><p></p><p>It made us NUTS.....but it was worth it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 527872, member: 4964"] Our psychiatric told us to NOT BELIEVE anything he said - and follow him to check up on even him going to the bathroom. It was exhausting but after six weeks? The majority of the lying stopped - because you get tired of people in the same house follwing you EVERYWHERE and saying (AND I REPEAT) "Well I'll have to follow you - and make sure because EVERY WORD THAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH IS A LIE AND UNLESS I SEE IT FOR MYSELF? I DO NOT BELIEVE A THING THAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH." He'd say - I'm going to the bathroom - I'd get up and say "Okay I'm going to follow and see." He'd get annoyed - but I'd follow and he'd slam the door and scream "I'm in here see?" and I would say "YES, I believe you, I followed you. I believe that you are in the bathroom. You told the truth. Thank you. He'd say - I'm going to my room - Id get up and say "Okay I'm going to follow and see." Hed get annoyed - But I'd follow and he'd go in the room anyway and yell "I'm in here see?" and i would say "Yup, I believe you, I followed you. I believe that you are in the bedroom. You told the truth. Thank you. He'd say - I'm going outside in the yard - I'd get up and follow him outside He'd say "LEAVE ME ALONE - I'm just going outside" I'd say "Nope If I don't see you do something, I don't believe you - You lie about the simplest things - so I have to follow you to make sure you are telling me the truth about anything." Then he'd walk back in the door and say "HA I did'nt go outside I"M INSIDE so THERE....nyeah." And I'd say "Oh you changed your mind? I see - Thats not lying that's changing your mind. Lying would have been saying you were going to go down to your friends house, and then going to the store. Changing your mind isn't lying - but you let me know where you were so you were NOT lying." Even if he went into the kitchen.......it made him nuts - and when he did lie? He got to stand in the corner with his nose in it....for 3 full minutes. If he took his nose out? Time started over. HE HATED that. But three minutes nose in - no turning......then I would say punishment over - you may resume your activities or would you like to play a game or go for a walk.....just to let him know punishment over, anger over - 'thing' over. It made us NUTS.....but it was worth it. [/QUOTE]
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