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<blockquote data-quote="I'm going crazy!!!" data-source="post: 94204" data-attributes="member: 4280"><p>I understand your concern I have also been involved in abusive relationships this is not one of them I love my husband very much and a lot of my fears and reactions come from my past experience Phillip would never hurt me or Chris I'm not scared of making hime mad because I'm scared of him but because that's just who I am the peacemaker. Phillip is trying very hard to be understanding he was raised similar to me and I'm sure a lot of us in a Type A situation and it's very hard for him to adjust just like it was very hard for me to adjust but I've been dealing with this since Chris was 18 months old and I had plenty of time to adjust. This weekend was the absolute worse with Chris screaming and hitting and kicking. right now the biggest deal is the computer or rather getting him off the computer I usually put him in his room until he's done screaming and then ask him if he's ok and tell him I love him I was actually VERY proud of Phillip last night I was at my aunt's visiting and he had to be the bad guy and get Chris off the computer and take his medications I got home and asked how it went he said he put him in his room and told him no screaming and no tearing up anything or he would be punished and if he listened then tomorrow after he did his homework he could play on the computer I guess it worked the only thing Chris said was that Phillip wouldn't let him play noggin and I said that was because it was time to get off the computer and let everyone else have a turn at it he didn't argue but just went back to his room anyway thanks for ya'lls concern I know it is meant well but this is a new marriage and I know through the grace of God it can work out as long as we don't give up and we seek the help we so desperately need.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="I'm going crazy!!!, post: 94204, member: 4280"] I understand your concern I have also been involved in abusive relationships this is not one of them I love my husband very much and a lot of my fears and reactions come from my past experience Phillip would never hurt me or Chris I'm not scared of making hime mad because I'm scared of him but because that's just who I am the peacemaker. Phillip is trying very hard to be understanding he was raised similar to me and I'm sure a lot of us in a Type A situation and it's very hard for him to adjust just like it was very hard for me to adjust but I've been dealing with this since Chris was 18 months old and I had plenty of time to adjust. This weekend was the absolute worse with Chris screaming and hitting and kicking. right now the biggest deal is the computer or rather getting him off the computer I usually put him in his room until he's done screaming and then ask him if he's ok and tell him I love him I was actually VERY proud of Phillip last night I was at my aunt's visiting and he had to be the bad guy and get Chris off the computer and take his medications I got home and asked how it went he said he put him in his room and told him no screaming and no tearing up anything or he would be punished and if he listened then tomorrow after he did his homework he could play on the computer I guess it worked the only thing Chris said was that Phillip wouldn't let him play noggin and I said that was because it was time to get off the computer and let everyone else have a turn at it he didn't argue but just went back to his room anyway thanks for ya'lls concern I know it is meant well but this is a new marriage and I know through the grace of God it can work out as long as we don't give up and we seek the help we so desperately need. [/QUOTE]
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