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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 303434" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Sorry if this sounds mean, I do not want it to be. </p><p> </p><p>You could be my difficult children stepmom. That is the way she thinks of my difficult child and me. </p><p> </p><p>Her father is doing the best parenting for that child. Sorry if it bothers you. But, he knows what is best for her. It may not seem right to you, but if it works for the child than you have to go with it. </p><p> </p><p>I do NOT agree that her father should remove her from the home whenever you think her behavior is not acceptable. THAT is not parenting at all! That is giving up and taking the easy way out. My difficult child would have taken that action as 'my daddy does not love me anymore' and it would have only gotten worse if she had to continue to go there. </p><p> </p><p>I 'get' that it is difficult to be around someone else's child when they are acting out. Heck - it is difficult enough to be around one's own child when they are acting out. </p><p> </p><p>Just an FYI - my difficult children stepmom has totally checked out from my difficult children life. Wants nothing to do with her basically. When once she loved her as her own. Imagine how that makes a child feel? Sure, bio-parents are tempted to give up - but we never can.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 303434, member: 391"] Sorry if this sounds mean, I do not want it to be. You could be my difficult children stepmom. That is the way she thinks of my difficult child and me. Her father is doing the best parenting for that child. Sorry if it bothers you. But, he knows what is best for her. It may not seem right to you, but if it works for the child than you have to go with it. I do NOT agree that her father should remove her from the home whenever you think her behavior is not acceptable. THAT is not parenting at all! That is giving up and taking the easy way out. My difficult child would have taken that action as 'my daddy does not love me anymore' and it would have only gotten worse if she had to continue to go there. I 'get' that it is difficult to be around someone else's child when they are acting out. Heck - it is difficult enough to be around one's own child when they are acting out. Just an FYI - my difficult children stepmom has totally checked out from my difficult children life. Wants nothing to do with her basically. When once she loved her as her own. Imagine how that makes a child feel? Sure, bio-parents are tempted to give up - but we never can. [/QUOTE]
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