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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 411661" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Thanks all. He isn't abusive to niece other than when she saw him with me. I firmly believe that exsil is crazy, have for years. It is likely she is doing this to either cover for something she did or so that when the school sends the absence/tardy issue to the courts (mandated in our state) then she can try to blame it on him. Over the years since the divorce (and while they were married also) exsil has attacked gfgbro many times - physically as well as in every other way. My mom hasn't seen it, but I have because I stopped by to drop something off to gfgbro once for my mom (3-4 yrs ago) and exsil was hitting him - she stopped when she saw me but I saw her punch him. He would grab her and try to hold her away from him, holding her hands or whatever. THat is the "abuse" she alleges - she hit him and he grabbed her hands to make her stop but it is him abusing her in his mind.</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, I will only do something if the lawyer and my mother call me to court. Well, if I get subpoenad by exsil I will also go, but she would regret that bigtime. She hasn't hid her crazy from me the way she does from my mom and dad. I won't be doing anything else other than that. Even that won't happen for more than another month - it was continued until April. Bro cannot see niece alone until then, but it documents that he will do whatever the courts say, that he does not hurt her or get her to school late. In the past she has told the school office that she wasn't sick - that she stayed home because mommy was too sick to drive her to school because she had to many bud lites the night before and iddn't have one to have before school to keep her from getting sick.</p><p> </p><p>I hope and pray that is exposed in court. And that niece tells the cps workers the truth when they interview her. But her mom pushes her to say that her dad is awful and hurts her. Our cps workers are NOT good at their jobs for the most part, often because they are usually very new and inexperienced. </p><p> </p><p>I appreciate the good thoughts, intend to keep niece and her best interests in my prayers and will tell the court/judge what they ask me about. Until then, I don't intend to spend time/energy on this. I have enough of a crisis with Jess right now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 411661, member: 1233"] Thanks all. He isn't abusive to niece other than when she saw him with me. I firmly believe that exsil is crazy, have for years. It is likely she is doing this to either cover for something she did or so that when the school sends the absence/tardy issue to the courts (mandated in our state) then she can try to blame it on him. Over the years since the divorce (and while they were married also) exsil has attacked gfgbro many times - physically as well as in every other way. My mom hasn't seen it, but I have because I stopped by to drop something off to gfgbro once for my mom (3-4 yrs ago) and exsil was hitting him - she stopped when she saw me but I saw her punch him. He would grab her and try to hold her away from him, holding her hands or whatever. THat is the "abuse" she alleges - she hit him and he grabbed her hands to make her stop but it is him abusing her in his mind. Anyway, I will only do something if the lawyer and my mother call me to court. Well, if I get subpoenad by exsil I will also go, but she would regret that bigtime. She hasn't hid her crazy from me the way she does from my mom and dad. I won't be doing anything else other than that. Even that won't happen for more than another month - it was continued until April. Bro cannot see niece alone until then, but it documents that he will do whatever the courts say, that he does not hurt her or get her to school late. In the past she has told the school office that she wasn't sick - that she stayed home because mommy was too sick to drive her to school because she had to many bud lites the night before and iddn't have one to have before school to keep her from getting sick. I hope and pray that is exposed in court. And that niece tells the cps workers the truth when they interview her. But her mom pushes her to say that her dad is awful and hurts her. Our cps workers are NOT good at their jobs for the most part, often because they are usually very new and inexperienced. I appreciate the good thoughts, intend to keep niece and her best interests in my prayers and will tell the court/judge what they ask me about. Until then, I don't intend to spend time/energy on this. I have enough of a crisis with Jess right now. [/QUOTE]
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