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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 643496" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>(((((hugs))))) I know exactly how you are feeling. It takes time and practice to stop letting them hurt us, and often it takes a LONG time! Your family of origin is dysfunctional and it probably drives them NUTS that you won't play in their sick dramas any longer. The family of your heart, of your choosing is vastly more healthy and loving. You have built an immediate family that you are clearly the heart of, and an extended family (including all of us here) that loves and treasures you. </p><p></p><p>Maybe someday your family of origin will wise up and realize all the love and fun and wonderful things that they threw away with their emotionally ill behavior, maybe they won't. Either way, they have lost and are losing an amazing treasure worth more than all the riches and wealth in the world.</p><p></p><p>Accept your feelings, allow yourself to feel them and process them, and then move on to one of the wonderful things going on in your life.</p><p></p><p>(((((hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 643496, member: 1233"] (((((hugs))))) I know exactly how you are feeling. It takes time and practice to stop letting them hurt us, and often it takes a LONG time! Your family of origin is dysfunctional and it probably drives them NUTS that you won't play in their sick dramas any longer. The family of your heart, of your choosing is vastly more healthy and loving. You have built an immediate family that you are clearly the heart of, and an extended family (including all of us here) that loves and treasures you. Maybe someday your family of origin will wise up and realize all the love and fun and wonderful things that they threw away with their emotionally ill behavior, maybe they won't. Either way, they have lost and are losing an amazing treasure worth more than all the riches and wealth in the world. Accept your feelings, allow yourself to feel them and process them, and then move on to one of the wonderful things going on in your life. (((((hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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