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<blockquote data-quote="april1974" data-source="post: 443213" data-attributes="member: 12128"><p>Dad329 sounds like you're handling things very well, I didn't realize this has happened before, the important part is that your daughter recieve help if that is needed and that you and bio mom (since you both can get along) have a united front, however don't leave out step mom include her BUT...this should be handled by her bio parents and hopefully your wife climbs on board for the best interest of daughter. </p><p></p><p>I don't want to leave out your step son because after thinking about this, I was thinking if the roles were reversed how would I feel, what I mean is what if your 11 yr old was a boy and the 6yr old a girl???? Not sure I would be so calm and that isn't fair to your step son who may feel violated and needs to know that what happened to him isn't OK and you aren't letting it slide. He needs to feel comfortable in his own home and I understand your wife's reaction, however hopefully daughter can be dealt with and maybe she needs to appologize to her step brother & her bio brother, but she also needs love too.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you contacted a proffessional someone who can guide you through all of this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="april1974, post: 443213, member: 12128"] Dad329 sounds like you're handling things very well, I didn't realize this has happened before, the important part is that your daughter recieve help if that is needed and that you and bio mom (since you both can get along) have a united front, however don't leave out step mom include her BUT...this should be handled by her bio parents and hopefully your wife climbs on board for the best interest of daughter. I don't want to leave out your step son because after thinking about this, I was thinking if the roles were reversed how would I feel, what I mean is what if your 11 yr old was a boy and the 6yr old a girl???? Not sure I would be so calm and that isn't fair to your step son who may feel violated and needs to know that what happened to him isn't OK and you aren't letting it slide. He needs to feel comfortable in his own home and I understand your wife's reaction, however hopefully daughter can be dealt with and maybe she needs to appologize to her step brother & her bio brother, but she also needs love too. I'm glad you contacted a proffessional someone who can guide you through all of this. [/QUOTE]
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