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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 443322" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Unfortunately, I had a child who sexually abused my two younger kids. Not saying that is what is happening here, but I think that an 11 year old doing anything sexual to a child five years younger is considered abuse. I believe they told me that it was five years...our child (no longer with us) was charged with sexual assault of a minor, although he was only 13 (we adopted him at 11 so he was doing it at the same age) and he was found guilty. We had nothing to do with the charges. The cops took over once they found out. We asked CPS to take custody of him, however he had done a lot more than just showing himself to the younger kids.</p><p></p><p>I wonder if she has ever been sexually molested herself. Frankly, I wouldn't leave them alone. Getting help from somebody who understands the issue is a very good start. Since our experience, I take anything sexual, including exposure, more seriously than some, especially if there is a wide age difference between kids. I don't think it's normal at her age. A five year old girl and a five year old boy, yes. But not at 11. Your daughter knows better. </p><p></p><p> Good luck and keep us posted!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 443322, member: 1550"] Unfortunately, I had a child who sexually abused my two younger kids. Not saying that is what is happening here, but I think that an 11 year old doing anything sexual to a child five years younger is considered abuse. I believe they told me that it was five years...our child (no longer with us) was charged with sexual assault of a minor, although he was only 13 (we adopted him at 11 so he was doing it at the same age) and he was found guilty. We had nothing to do with the charges. The cops took over once they found out. We asked CPS to take custody of him, however he had done a lot more than just showing himself to the younger kids. I wonder if she has ever been sexually molested herself. Frankly, I wouldn't leave them alone. Getting help from somebody who understands the issue is a very good start. Since our experience, I take anything sexual, including exposure, more seriously than some, especially if there is a wide age difference between kids. I don't think it's normal at her age. A five year old girl and a five year old boy, yes. But not at 11. Your daughter knows better. Good luck and keep us posted! [/QUOTE]
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