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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662889" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>According to the material I read, the borderline mom is incapable of loving her child. Plus, I have posted to you all along that I think you are not borderline. And then, your therapist confirmed it. I'm so sorry though, SWOT.</p><p></p><p>I mean, I am sorry, but I am so glad I read that material.</p><p></p><p>I nearly fell off my chair at the therapists description of the adult patient raised by borderline mom. I had been feeling so badly about myself for all the terrible things I'd been thinking <em>and there it was: that is just how a child raised by a mom who hated would feel, too! </em>I swear I was not looking for information about you, SWOT.</p><p></p><p>The impression I got from reading about the moms indicated that the child would come away believing the mom was great but that the child was bad. Or stupid. <em>The very words you have posted regarding the things you believed about your mom and yourself.</em></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>No, don't do that. For me, anonymity is the reason I can do this ~ can think about things and post things here that are so personal and so not very nice.</p><p></p><p>I am just so sorry.</p><p></p><p>But so glad I found that information.</p><p></p><p>But so sorry. That must have been a nasty surprise.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That's exactly right. If it were me though, I would feel so exposed. </p><p></p><p>I like Cedar. That is the name I will stay with. </p><p></p><p>SWOT? I appreciate your being so nice about this.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662889, member: 17461"] According to the material I read, the borderline mom is incapable of loving her child. Plus, I have posted to you all along that I think you are not borderline. And then, your therapist confirmed it. I'm so sorry though, SWOT. I mean, I am sorry, but I am so glad I read that material. I nearly fell off my chair at the therapists description of the adult patient raised by borderline mom. I had been feeling so badly about myself for all the terrible things I'd been thinking [I]and there it was: that is just how a child raised by a mom who hated would feel, too! [/I]I swear I was not looking for information about you, SWOT. The impression I got from reading about the moms indicated that the child would come away believing the mom was great but that the child was bad. Or stupid. [I]The very words you have posted regarding the things you believed about your mom and yourself.[/I] No, don't do that. For me, anonymity is the reason I can do this ~ can think about things and post things here that are so personal and so not very nice. I am just so sorry. But so glad I found that information. But so sorry. That must have been a nasty surprise. That's exactly right. If it were me though, I would feel so exposed. I like Cedar. That is the name I will stay with. SWOT? I appreciate your being so nice about this. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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