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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662933" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>When did you stop beating your wife, right?</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>And another way to dominate and shame and anger your victim is to claim to believe there is something terrible the matter with the way they think when you know it is not true. Your sister persists. Could she hate you the same way my sister hates me, SWOT? The same way Copa's sister seems to treat Copa, as well? </p><p></p><p>I still get that emotional flashback feeling when I remember that I think my sister really does hate me. With hatred, I mean.</p><p></p><p>Like, <em>hatred.</em></p><p></p><p><em>She hates me like racism, like a fanatic hates.</em></p><p></p><p>Isn't that the most extraordinary thing.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think I might be Narcissistic, then.</p><p></p><p>Except I am more concerned with not looking ugly than I am with how beautiful I look. I do have those issues around appearance. "That'll do, pig."</p><p></p><p>Remember?</p><p></p><p>I feel so badly for myself now, about that.</p><p></p><p>I am proud of my hard work, and of the change that has been accomplished.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That is true. I was thinking about how I thought life worked when I was young, and how beautifully different everything is, really. As we all go through the proof of life through our own eyes instead of through those of our abusers...oh, wow.</p><p></p><p>I hope I live a long time after this, so I can celebrate all of it.</p><p></p><p>All of it.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Okay I will. It makes me very sad to think <em>they really don't like me,</em> SWOT.</p><p></p><p>I will read there on that site today.</p><p></p><p>It makes me feel very weak, to know they don't even like me. How shaming! </p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px">roar</span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">I do think your mom did everything in her power to hurt you with the love you felt for your grandmother, SWOT. I think she knew what she was doing, and that she did it on purpose.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">The strangest, most hurtful things happened around my grandmother's death, too. All of it was filtered through my mother, who took charge in the strangest, ugliest ways. As she lay in her coffin, my sister took my dead grandmother's hand and seemed, for all the world, to be examining my grandmother's wedding ring.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">Closely and at some length.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">My sister felt the ring should have been given to her daughter, who had been named after my grandmother. My mother had the diamond reset into a ring for my father.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">The ring disappeared after my father's death, which occurred while they were visiting my sister.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">My sister.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">Huh.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px">Cedar</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"><span style="font-size: 15px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 9px"></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662933, member: 17461"] When did you stop beating your wife, right? And another way to dominate and shame and anger your victim is to claim to believe there is something terrible the matter with the way they think when you know it is not true. Your sister persists. Could she hate you the same way my sister hates me, SWOT? The same way Copa's sister seems to treat Copa, as well? I still get that emotional flashback feeling when I remember that I think my sister really does hate me. With hatred, I mean. Like, [I]hatred.[/I] [I]She hates me like racism, like a fanatic hates.[/I] Isn't that the most extraordinary thing. I think I might be Narcissistic, then. Except I am more concerned with not looking ugly than I am with how beautiful I look. I do have those issues around appearance. "That'll do, pig." Remember? I feel so badly for myself now, about that. I am proud of my hard work, and of the change that has been accomplished. That is true. I was thinking about how I thought life worked when I was young, and how beautifully different everything is, really. As we all go through the proof of life through our own eyes instead of through those of our abusers...oh, wow. I hope I live a long time after this, so I can celebrate all of it. All of it. :O) Okay I will. It makes me very sad to think [I]they really don't like me,[/I] SWOT. I will read there on that site today. It makes me feel very weak, to know they don't even like me. How shaming! [SIZE=1]roar[/SIZE] [SIZE=4][/SIZE] [SIZE=1][SIZE=4][/SIZE] [SIZE=4]I do think your mom did everything in her power to hurt you with the love you felt for your grandmother, SWOT. I think she knew what she was doing, and that she did it on purpose.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4]The strangest, most hurtful things happened around my grandmother's death, too. All of it was filtered through my mother, who took charge in the strangest, ugliest ways. As she lay in her coffin, my sister took my dead grandmother's hand and seemed, for all the world, to be examining my grandmother's wedding ring.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4]Closely and at some length.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4]My sister felt the ring should have been given to her daughter, who had been named after my grandmother. My mother had the diamond reset into a ring for my father.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4]The ring disappeared after my father's death, which occurred while they were visiting my sister.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4]My sister. Huh.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4]Cedar[/SIZE] [SIZE=4] [/SIZE] [/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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