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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662939" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I think it has to do with being a man. D H would describe it as being muzzled for the sake of the woman he loved. He would lose me, if he responded to my mother, my sister, or even my kids, the way he wanted to. The men who love us Copa, love us with all their hearts.</p><p></p><p>M is giving up his manhood for you, to have you, to love you.</p><p></p><p>D H is free now, from that muzzling of the spirit place. He is giddy with it. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The male who beat my daughter over the course of three days and left her for dead stomped on her bare feet in his steel toed boots.</p><p></p><p>She had pieces of dead bone removed from her feet.</p><p></p><p>He was trying to cripple her before he killed her, Copa.</p><p></p><p>He also broke vertebrae in her back.</p><p></p><p>blackgnat's son put her in Intensive Care with a brain bleed.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The male who beat daughter also kicked her in the head. She was complaining of pain, blurred vision, forgetfulness, emotional lability at a doctor's visit some months into her recovery. The nurse told her: "If you don't want to have brain damage, don't let people kick you in the head."</p><p></p><p>People who do not have kids like ours cannot understand. They can be the most compassionate, accepting people in all the world. Unless they have dealt with a child like ours <em>they have no frame of reference.</em></p><p></p><p>Know this, Copa, and disregard them. Be happy for them that they don't know and pray for them that they never do know what this is like.</p><p></p><p>Did I post already that on one of those borderline sites, it was noted that moms raised by borderline persons are especially at risk, should their own children become addicted or have other problems? Because we have been taught the other guy's problems or pain or stinky feet are our responsibility.</p><p></p><p>Just for now Copa, refuse to condemn yourself. Postpone that, for now. All of this is going to look different once you are on the other side of this.</p><p></p><p>I am pulling you along Copa, and SWOT is singing life back into the bones.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>You are a good and decent person, Copa. A normal child would listen. Your son is determined to be mean in the same, soul destroying way my mom is mean, or my sister, when she hurt my daughter.</p><p></p><p>I see that same meanness in my son, Copa. I believe drug use does that. Empathy, integrity, the capacity to love ~ all that goes I think, when people use drugs <em>prescription or not, sometimes.</em> Depending on the brain chemistry of the person using the drug or the medication.</p><p></p><p>That is what happened to your son Copa, and that is what happened to mine.</p><p></p><p>It happens to everyone who uses too much medication, legal or illicitly.</p><p> </p><p>It happened to poor D H mom through her pain medicine.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662939, member: 17461"] I think it has to do with being a man. D H would describe it as being muzzled for the sake of the woman he loved. He would lose me, if he responded to my mother, my sister, or even my kids, the way he wanted to. The men who love us Copa, love us with all their hearts. M is giving up his manhood for you, to have you, to love you. D H is free now, from that muzzling of the spirit place. He is giddy with it. The male who beat my daughter over the course of three days and left her for dead stomped on her bare feet in his steel toed boots. She had pieces of dead bone removed from her feet. He was trying to cripple her before he killed her, Copa. He also broke vertebrae in her back. blackgnat's son put her in Intensive Care with a brain bleed. The male who beat daughter also kicked her in the head. She was complaining of pain, blurred vision, forgetfulness, emotional lability at a doctor's visit some months into her recovery. The nurse told her: "If you don't want to have brain damage, don't let people kick you in the head." People who do not have kids like ours cannot understand. They can be the most compassionate, accepting people in all the world. Unless they have dealt with a child like ours [I]they have no frame of reference.[/I] Know this, Copa, and disregard them. Be happy for them that they don't know and pray for them that they never do know what this is like. Did I post already that on one of those borderline sites, it was noted that moms raised by borderline persons are especially at risk, should their own children become addicted or have other problems? Because we have been taught the other guy's problems or pain or stinky feet are our responsibility. Just for now Copa, refuse to condemn yourself. Postpone that, for now. All of this is going to look different once you are on the other side of this. I am pulling you along Copa, and SWOT is singing life back into the bones. You are a good and decent person, Copa. A normal child would listen. Your son is determined to be mean in the same, soul destroying way my mom is mean, or my sister, when she hurt my daughter. I see that same meanness in my son, Copa. I believe drug use does that. Empathy, integrity, the capacity to love ~ all that goes I think, when people use drugs [I]prescription or not, sometimes.[/I] Depending on the brain chemistry of the person using the drug or the medication. That is what happened to your son Copa, and that is what happened to mine. It happens to everyone who uses too much medication, legal or illicitly. It happened to poor D H mom through her pain medicine. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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