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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 663012" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Belle, my heart bleeds. I hope you do get a puppy to love on. You deserve one, they are great comfort.</p><p></p><p>Belle, one thing all of us had to learn is that our disturbed children pick these nuts for a reason. They themselves are not doing well and many are drug addicts. The blame for your son's behavior is on his shoulders, not hers. He would not be all better without her. He'd find another one like her. That's what they do. Like finds like. Nice kids do not hang with creeps and drug users and vice versa. It's kind of like, in a simplistic way, that a clique of adults who like to party and drink usually do not attract non-drinkers to their club and would feel uncomfortable if they were around.</p><p></p><p>Birds of a feather stick together.</p><p></p><p>Your son is of the age where he is responsible for his behavior. He may be in more trouble than you know. It can't just be her. He wouldn't put up with her if he wasn't involved in the same drama and bad stuff she is. It is very hard for us to face at first. We finally do find out, and if we are not prepared at all, we are knocked off our feet.</p><p></p><p>Do you think I wanted to believe my gorgeous little daughter who was so sweet was doing meth? Do you think I even believed it until she told me? No, I thought it was just mostly pot. I didn't even know she drank a lot. They are good at hiding it.</p><p></p><p>Again, I am sick for you and if it were me I'd ban her from my sight. I'd never look at her again. Ick. Killing a puppy. She is too strung out on drugs to have a pet.</p><p></p><p>I hope you find peace and comfort in the little things today. Look at the trees, the sky, the flowers, the things that are beautiful and that can never be taken away from you. Try to be nice to YOU today. You deserve it and have been through such trauma.</p></blockquote><p>[/QUOTE]</p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 663012, member: 1550"] Belle, my heart bleeds. I hope you do get a puppy to love on. You deserve one, they are great comfort. Belle, one thing all of us had to learn is that our disturbed children pick these nuts for a reason. They themselves are not doing well and many are drug addicts. The blame for your son's behavior is on his shoulders, not hers. He would not be all better without her. He'd find another one like her. That's what they do. Like finds like. Nice kids do not hang with creeps and drug users and vice versa. It's kind of like, in a simplistic way, that a clique of adults who like to party and drink usually do not attract non-drinkers to their club and would feel uncomfortable if they were around. Birds of a feather stick together. Your son is of the age where he is responsible for his behavior. He may be in more trouble than you know. It can't just be her. He wouldn't put up with her if he wasn't involved in the same drama and bad stuff she is. It is very hard for us to face at first. We finally do find out, and if we are not prepared at all, we are knocked off our feet. Do you think I wanted to believe my gorgeous little daughter who was so sweet was doing meth? Do you think I even believed it until she told me? No, I thought it was just mostly pot. I didn't even know she drank a lot. They are good at hiding it. Again, I am sick for you and if it were me I'd ban her from my sight. I'd never look at her again. Ick. Killing a puppy. She is too strung out on drugs to have a pet. I hope you find peace and comfort in the little things today. Look at the trees, the sky, the flowers, the things that are beautiful and that can never be taken away from you. Try to be nice to YOU today. You deserve it and have been through such trauma.[/QUOTE] [/QUOTE]
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