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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 661464" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Lil, from what I know of you, you are loving and kind. You did nothing wrong in raising your son. None of us are perfect, we have all made mistakes but that doesn't make us bad parents.</p><p>The fact that we are all here on this site sharing shows that we love our kids. If we didn't care about how they turned out we wouldn't be here pouring out our hearts and sharing our pain.</p><p>You and I are alike in that we each have only one child so it's easy to project out that "we must have done something wrong" because we don't have another "good" child to compare to. There are people on this site that have more than one child and their other children are living responsible productive lives. It's not always about how we parent. It took me time to understand that my son is just wired differently, he's just like his bio-father.</p><p>The only thing you are guilty of is loving your son and that my friend is not a bad thing.</p><p>I think one of the hardest parts of having a D C is that we will never really know or understand why they are the way they are. It just is what it is.</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #ff4dff"><u><strong>YOU are good enough</strong></u>.</span></p><p></p><p><img src="https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/30/ed/f8/30edf8779f734dba9183fb7a459072c6.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 661464, member: 18516"] Lil, from what I know of you, you are loving and kind. You did nothing wrong in raising your son. None of us are perfect, we have all made mistakes but that doesn't make us bad parents. The fact that we are all here on this site sharing shows that we love our kids. If we didn't care about how they turned out we wouldn't be here pouring out our hearts and sharing our pain. You and I are alike in that we each have only one child so it's easy to project out that "we must have done something wrong" because we don't have another "good" child to compare to. There are people on this site that have more than one child and their other children are living responsible productive lives. It's not always about how we parent. It took me time to understand that my son is just wired differently, he's just like his bio-father. The only thing you are guilty of is loving your son and that my friend is not a bad thing. I think one of the hardest parts of having a D C is that we will never really know or understand why they are the way they are. It just is what it is. [COLOR=#ff4dff][U][B]YOU are good enough[/B][/U].[/COLOR] [IMG]https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/30/ed/f8/30edf8779f734dba9183fb7a459072c6.jpg[/IMG] [/QUOTE]
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