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<blockquote data-quote="I'm going crazy!!!" data-source="post: 104266" data-attributes="member: 4280"><p>UPDATE </p><p></p><p></p><p>husband and I met with the counselor tonight and husband is a little concerned that after I described the CiCi's meltdown the counselor's eyes got wide and husband worries that counselor may not be ready to handle difficult child. There are some concerns about husband I just don't think he's getting it!! The library finally got Dr. Green's book in so I just started reading it. I told husband I would be leaving notes as to what sections I wanted him to read as I got to them each night and he could read them while I was at work the next day and we could discuss them later. husband told difficult child he was lazy the other day husband says it just slipped out because difficult child refused to get dressed and husband had to dress him we had some words over this and I think husband knows that is unacceptable. Anyway tonight we told the counselor we were trying to get difficult child a Multi-Disciplinary Evaluation and I had to describe it to him so he would know if we were talking about the same things. He also called difficult child's meltdowns a tantrum I sure hope he throws a big one for him and then we'll see if he still wants to call it a tantrum cause I sure aint never seen one like these LOL. difficult child sees him Thursday for the first time and we made it very clear that difficult child needed some anger management that he could do himself when he needed to if that was possible at his age and if not then we could atleast start to teach them to him anyway. I also let him know that I was not against medications if that's what it took to help him control himself. I think Thursday will be fun husband is taking difficult child to counseling session!! therapist will see difficult child until he feels he has gotten to know him well enough to give us some input and then he will make an appointment with us to discuss some behaviour management ideas. husband and I decided if he's only in there for about 15 - 20 minutes then maybe this therapist isn't the right match for difficult child. How long do these sessions usually last I know they will just be getting to know each other but are we being unreasonable. I really need ya'lls opinions hear this all new area for me. Thanks The sleeping medications are working really well only now that he's getting so much sleep he's VERY HYPER in the mornings but in a good mood so I can deal with it but husband is having a hard time. Before anyone talks about husband let me tell you he has AS and it's really hard for him to understand how this is acceptable at all plus he's 14 years older than me and was raised by his grandparents so he is really from the because I said so generation and that does not work with difficult child sorry this is so long but just wanted to keep ya'll informed thanks for reading you guys are the best love ya</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="I'm going crazy!!!, post: 104266, member: 4280"] UPDATE husband and I met with the counselor tonight and husband is a little concerned that after I described the CiCi's meltdown the counselor's eyes got wide and husband worries that counselor may not be ready to handle difficult child. There are some concerns about husband I just don't think he's getting it!! The library finally got Dr. Green's book in so I just started reading it. I told husband I would be leaving notes as to what sections I wanted him to read as I got to them each night and he could read them while I was at work the next day and we could discuss them later. husband told difficult child he was lazy the other day husband says it just slipped out because difficult child refused to get dressed and husband had to dress him we had some words over this and I think husband knows that is unacceptable. Anyway tonight we told the counselor we were trying to get difficult child a Multi-Disciplinary Evaluation and I had to describe it to him so he would know if we were talking about the same things. He also called difficult child's meltdowns a tantrum I sure hope he throws a big one for him and then we'll see if he still wants to call it a tantrum cause I sure aint never seen one like these LOL. difficult child sees him Thursday for the first time and we made it very clear that difficult child needed some anger management that he could do himself when he needed to if that was possible at his age and if not then we could atleast start to teach them to him anyway. I also let him know that I was not against medications if that's what it took to help him control himself. I think Thursday will be fun husband is taking difficult child to counseling session!! therapist will see difficult child until he feels he has gotten to know him well enough to give us some input and then he will make an appointment with us to discuss some behaviour management ideas. husband and I decided if he's only in there for about 15 - 20 minutes then maybe this therapist isn't the right match for difficult child. How long do these sessions usually last I know they will just be getting to know each other but are we being unreasonable. I really need ya'lls opinions hear this all new area for me. Thanks The sleeping medications are working really well only now that he's getting so much sleep he's VERY HYPER in the mornings but in a good mood so I can deal with it but husband is having a hard time. Before anyone talks about husband let me tell you he has AS and it's really hard for him to understand how this is acceptable at all plus he's 14 years older than me and was raised by his grandparents so he is really from the because I said so generation and that does not work with difficult child sorry this is so long but just wanted to keep ya'll informed thanks for reading you guys are the best love ya [/QUOTE]
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