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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 576504" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Yeah, I understand your dilemma too, it's a tough one. I have no real advice. You are the one in the middle of all of this, you may be the only one who can 'feel' your way through it all and listen to your gut, to your intuition. We don't know the players nor can we feel the nuances, see the body language, pick up the cues............trust yourself on this one. If you feel in your mommy heart that sending your 12 year old will open doors you don't want opened, then go with that. on the other hand, if you think that easy child is too young to really try this tactic, and difficult child is in her own category and your parents really don't want both of your kids and perhaps you are overreacting with fear, then let her go. It really sounds like one of those issues where the appropriate response is going to come from within you. And, if you have a few months before this will go down, you can continue to access it all, really listening and allowing your intuition to speak to you. I'm a real believer in intuition, it is the part of us that 'knows.' So, I would say, keep your antenna up, listen to what is said, wait awhile and trust your gut.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 576504, member: 13542"] Yeah, I understand your dilemma too, it's a tough one. I have no real advice. You are the one in the middle of all of this, you may be the only one who can 'feel' your way through it all and listen to your gut, to your intuition. We don't know the players nor can we feel the nuances, see the body language, pick up the cues............trust yourself on this one. If you feel in your mommy heart that sending your 12 year old will open doors you don't want opened, then go with that. on the other hand, if you think that easy child is too young to really try this tactic, and difficult child is in her own category and your parents really don't want both of your kids and perhaps you are overreacting with fear, then let her go. It really sounds like one of those issues where the appropriate response is going to come from within you. And, if you have a few months before this will go down, you can continue to access it all, really listening and allowing your intuition to speak to you. I'm a real believer in intuition, it is the part of us that 'knows.' So, I would say, keep your antenna up, listen to what is said, wait awhile and trust your gut. [/QUOTE]
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