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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 648347" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If you really love her, hope she leaves. I love my son with all my heart, but I know that any woman who falls in love with him and whom will stay with him for even a while is in for a heartache. His last girlfriend was financially devastated as he, being a good con artist, talked her into buying this and that for his house (they briefly lived together). She had more free money than him and used up her money then they broke up and he won't give her anything back nor pay her and she is now too broke to go to court and in a vulnerable situation with her ex husband and child so that she is not up to prosecuting him to try to get her stuff back, at least some of it. He is very lucky at dodging bullets that way. I say it is better for him to live alone until/unless he straightens out his problems, which is not likely to ever happen. He thinks it's "too bad" that she spent so much money on his house and it WAS her idea to leave (wonder why), but he has no remorse or feelings of any guilt that he literally let her go broke by buying stuff for him and his son.</p><p></p><p>Your son's girlfriend can not make him quit using heroin. Only he can do it. She is only going to destroy her own life if she stays with him so I have to hope she does not. Could be a wake up call for Son too. Who knows? I agree though that this relationship can never be healthy or good and that it likely will end, even if she loves him. In a way, she doesn't even know him...</p><p></p><p>Hugs and I'm sorry this is happening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 648347, member: 1550"] If you really love her, hope she leaves. I love my son with all my heart, but I know that any woman who falls in love with him and whom will stay with him for even a while is in for a heartache. His last girlfriend was financially devastated as he, being a good con artist, talked her into buying this and that for his house (they briefly lived together). She had more free money than him and used up her money then they broke up and he won't give her anything back nor pay her and she is now too broke to go to court and in a vulnerable situation with her ex husband and child so that she is not up to prosecuting him to try to get her stuff back, at least some of it. He is very lucky at dodging bullets that way. I say it is better for him to live alone until/unless he straightens out his problems, which is not likely to ever happen. He thinks it's "too bad" that she spent so much money on his house and it WAS her idea to leave (wonder why), but he has no remorse or feelings of any guilt that he literally let her go broke by buying stuff for him and his son. Your son's girlfriend can not make him quit using heroin. Only he can do it. She is only going to destroy her own life if she stays with him so I have to hope she does not. Could be a wake up call for Son too. Who knows? I agree though that this relationship can never be healthy or good and that it likely will end, even if she loves him. In a way, she doesn't even know him... Hugs and I'm sorry this is happening. [/QUOTE]
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