Oh dear friends.. We are finding evidence that he may be using again. He's been lying, losing weight, we found hallowed out pen with residue hidden in closet. I'm in tears.. He's coming over in a bit and we're going to confront him and force him to take a Urine test in front of his dad. Please help me say the right things.. I don't know what to do or say? He has a job, a nice girlfriend and almost done with his mandatory treatment. I'm so distraught and heart broken!