I was a mother of 8 children, over 40 years ago one of my daughters signed herself into care and made accusations againt her dad for abuse. For the following three years my younger children were interigated and medically abused by the authorities, I had no power to make them stop. The daughter then wrote letters and statements admitting she had lied. But it was to late the damage was done. She thought that by doing what she did she would find a better home where she could get more of the material things that she wanted. ( we were very poor ) Two authorities were involved in tearing my family apart on her lies.
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Once the authorities finally decided to leave us alone ( no charges were made) It did not chance what my younger children had to go through for three long years. They started to blame me saying I should have been able to stop them, nothing was ever found to be wrong with my children, I had always done everything I could to protect them!.
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My youngest son changed overnight, becoming someone I no longer recognised. I suffered a series of strokes due to the stress. He once entered my room when I was sleeping and cut off parts of my hair, he continually played loud music and threatened me with a knife. I dont know if he was taking drugs at that time but he never washed, his room was a tip and there was an unfamiliar smell in his room!
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When he reached 18 I sat him down and asked if he would consider now growing up and taking responsibilty, get a job, pay his way and stop playing loud music day and night.........he said that he did not have to get a job and should not have to pay his way in his own home and that it was my duty to feed him and keep a roof over his head!. So I told him that he could indeed do whatever he wanted but as my health was so bad I told him he would have to do it somewhere else. I found him a room nearby and paid a months rent and deposit for him telling him that this was his chance to make something of himself. I said to him, I know you hate me so you will be better off in your own space.
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Within a month he had trashed the room and got kicked out, I would not let him move back home, he had freinds he could stay with. three weeks later I had to put out a fire in my hallway as someone had put something lit through the letter box. I managed to put it out but it had damaged the front door and the wall with the electric meter on it. I called the police. They asked if I had any idea who would do this and my son did not come to mind.........but he told me when I saw him three weeks later that it had been him! I did not report him to the police but wish i had now.
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I am now 73 years old, suffered a heart attack 5 months ago now living 200 miles from my previous home where I was forced to leave in 1997, leaving everything behind me.
The police have this week contacted me to say that I am now facing historical abuse charges. My son has accused me of extreme cruelty! And I am about to be interveiwed for this. My now husband suffers with an extreme anxiety disorder and if I die he has no one to care about him and he will be homeless.
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So my advice to anyone who has a rogue child, they have issues that you cannot deal with so to save your health and sanity DONT EVEN THINK TWICE - REPORT THEM so they can get the help that they need, the help that you are not qualified to give them. It will be the best thing you ever do for them trust me. I could now go to prison if he is to be believed,! There is no help for me and the law does not protect parents against this.
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Children do lie and manipulate. They can cause serious harm. The law it seems protects them!. He has recently posted on social media some very sick and damning things about me and three other people.........And what concerns me is that he has children and grandchildren of his own now!!. God help us weak people.
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Once the authorities finally decided to leave us alone ( no charges were made) It did not chance what my younger children had to go through for three long years. They started to blame me saying I should have been able to stop them, nothing was ever found to be wrong with my children, I had always done everything I could to protect them!.
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My youngest son changed overnight, becoming someone I no longer recognised. I suffered a series of strokes due to the stress. He once entered my room when I was sleeping and cut off parts of my hair, he continually played loud music and threatened me with a knife. I dont know if he was taking drugs at that time but he never washed, his room was a tip and there was an unfamiliar smell in his room!
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When he reached 18 I sat him down and asked if he would consider now growing up and taking responsibilty, get a job, pay his way and stop playing loud music day and night.........he said that he did not have to get a job and should not have to pay his way in his own home and that it was my duty to feed him and keep a roof over his head!. So I told him that he could indeed do whatever he wanted but as my health was so bad I told him he would have to do it somewhere else. I found him a room nearby and paid a months rent and deposit for him telling him that this was his chance to make something of himself. I said to him, I know you hate me so you will be better off in your own space.
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Within a month he had trashed the room and got kicked out, I would not let him move back home, he had freinds he could stay with. three weeks later I had to put out a fire in my hallway as someone had put something lit through the letter box. I managed to put it out but it had damaged the front door and the wall with the electric meter on it. I called the police. They asked if I had any idea who would do this and my son did not come to mind.........but he told me when I saw him three weeks later that it had been him! I did not report him to the police but wish i had now.
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I am now 73 years old, suffered a heart attack 5 months ago now living 200 miles from my previous home where I was forced to leave in 1997, leaving everything behind me.
The police have this week contacted me to say that I am now facing historical abuse charges. My son has accused me of extreme cruelty! And I am about to be interveiwed for this. My now husband suffers with an extreme anxiety disorder and if I die he has no one to care about him and he will be homeless.
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So my advice to anyone who has a rogue child, they have issues that you cannot deal with so to save your health and sanity DONT EVEN THINK TWICE - REPORT THEM so they can get the help that they need, the help that you are not qualified to give them. It will be the best thing you ever do for them trust me. I could now go to prison if he is to be believed,! There is no help for me and the law does not protect parents against this.
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Children do lie and manipulate. They can cause serious harm. The law it seems protects them!. He has recently posted on social media some very sick and damning things about me and three other people.........And what concerns me is that he has children and grandchildren of his own now!!. God help us weak people.
