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<blockquote data-quote="Holly10011" data-source="post: 725487" data-attributes="member: 20118"><p>I dont think I have to worry much about getting out of town - he would most likely stay with friends and or Air B and B next visit. And on the off chance he wants to stay here his father can deal with him - I have an older relative who is alone ,with- an extra room - she always welcomes my visits. But thankfully he only visits once a yr. so I have 11 months to prepare. Thankfully not pining away over him . Looking at the glass half full I had many wonderful memories of a kind caring loving child .He was 24/7 pure joy. 17.5 years was a very good run . Sorry it is over. Someone here posted the most helpful feedback for me . She confirmed that I should distance myself and said " He will figure out what has happened and what he can do to fix it if he wants to . YES! This is where I am . He will figure it out and then the ball is in his court. If he wants to send a sincere apology ( odds are that he wont ) I may consider accepting but I know in my heart things will never quite be the same. if he chooses not to apologize then I am ok to go on with him living across the country and minimal contact. Yes his importance in my life has gone down 10 notches. Thanks you very much !!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Holly10011, post: 725487, member: 20118"] I dont think I have to worry much about getting out of town - he would most likely stay with friends and or Air B and B next visit. And on the off chance he wants to stay here his father can deal with him - I have an older relative who is alone ,with- an extra room - she always welcomes my visits. But thankfully he only visits once a yr. so I have 11 months to prepare. Thankfully not pining away over him . Looking at the glass half full I had many wonderful memories of a kind caring loving child .He was 24/7 pure joy. 17.5 years was a very good run . Sorry it is over. Someone here posted the most helpful feedback for me . She confirmed that I should distance myself and said " He will figure out what has happened and what he can do to fix it if he wants to . YES! This is where I am . He will figure it out and then the ball is in his court. If he wants to send a sincere apology ( odds are that he wont ) I may consider accepting but I know in my heart things will never quite be the same. if he chooses not to apologize then I am ok to go on with him living across the country and minimal contact. Yes his importance in my life has gone down 10 notches. Thanks you very much !! [/QUOTE]
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