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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 744130" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>I see a counselor and I go to a parents meeting. I find them helpful but when Sh*t hits the fan I crumble.</p><p>He was discharged on Wednesday because of the insurance refusing to pay. He only went for this short stay because of the girl he met for a few short weeks. He fell hard again because he feels he needs someone to love him to feel good about himself. So, when he relapsed he was mean and nasty and acted very unstable and so she pulled away which was what she needed to do. She told his friend that he needed to get help and be sober so he went "for her" he said in an email to me... He felt if he showed her he was serious about getting sober again she would get back into a relationship with him... Nope, she was done because of how he acted. Texting her 100's of times using fake numbers, calling her etc. So, yesterday he just "wanted to hear that there was no chance". He said he will be fine if he heard that.... Well, he finally heard it and crashed. Refused to go to his therapy session, refused to do anything. Told me he wanted me to fly there and take his cat because he was pulling his money out and moving to another state to be homeless. That he was done with life, that he deserved all the misery he has, that he was a human piece of garbage, etc. Was he drinking... I have no clue. Did he resort to self harm.... most likely . Hard to know when you are so far away. </p><p>He has something majorly wrong with how he feels he needs someone in his life. As soon as that someone starts pulling away he resorts to drinking and then doesn't stop.</p><p>He had a loving home growing up. Spoiled rotten- yes. </p><p>The treatment facility is a dual diagnosis place. They want to do PTSD testing on him to see if he has something underlying... Tells me insurance doesn't cover this.. I never even heard of such a test.</p><p>I have no clue what could have happened to him. He seemed like a normal child up until puberty when his hormones kicked in. Then the bullying grew worse from his peers in school. Other than that I just don't know. </p><p>His friend went to check on him then and left me know he was okay. </p><p>I need to just block his number and not take this manipulation. If he takes his life or wants to be homeless than that is his choice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 744130, member: 22817"] I see a counselor and I go to a parents meeting. I find them helpful but when Sh*t hits the fan I crumble. He was discharged on Wednesday because of the insurance refusing to pay. He only went for this short stay because of the girl he met for a few short weeks. He fell hard again because he feels he needs someone to love him to feel good about himself. So, when he relapsed he was mean and nasty and acted very unstable and so she pulled away which was what she needed to do. She told his friend that he needed to get help and be sober so he went "for her" he said in an email to me... He felt if he showed her he was serious about getting sober again she would get back into a relationship with him... Nope, she was done because of how he acted. Texting her 100's of times using fake numbers, calling her etc. So, yesterday he just "wanted to hear that there was no chance". He said he will be fine if he heard that.... Well, he finally heard it and crashed. Refused to go to his therapy session, refused to do anything. Told me he wanted me to fly there and take his cat because he was pulling his money out and moving to another state to be homeless. That he was done with life, that he deserved all the misery he has, that he was a human piece of garbage, etc. Was he drinking... I have no clue. Did he resort to self harm.... most likely . Hard to know when you are so far away. He has something majorly wrong with how he feels he needs someone in his life. As soon as that someone starts pulling away he resorts to drinking and then doesn't stop. He had a loving home growing up. Spoiled rotten- yes. The treatment facility is a dual diagnosis place. They want to do PTSD testing on him to see if he has something underlying... Tells me insurance doesn't cover this.. I never even heard of such a test. I have no clue what could have happened to him. He seemed like a normal child up until puberty when his hormones kicked in. Then the bullying grew worse from his peers in school. Other than that I just don't know. His friend went to check on him then and left me know he was okay. I need to just block his number and not take this manipulation. If he takes his life or wants to be homeless than that is his choice. [/QUOTE]
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