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Feeling a bit disconnected and stuck in a time warp - A Vent
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 119510" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, I was disinherited. When my mother passed away I found out. She never liked me much, and I don't see anyone in my family as they pretty much don't really know me. I refuse to let that bog me down. I'm too old, life is precious, and I concentrate on the good side of life. You know what? Your mom is sick. If you let a sick woman (I mean, who hits a grown child with a shoe???) bug you for the rest of your life, you'll be wasting it. I'll bet you have REAL "family" ie. friends who treat you like family--and your own children and maybe a husband or SO. I would try to move past the hurt. When you see your mother, know in advance that she's going to be difficult and let it bounce off of you. If you can't, see her less. Being older is no excuse for her to treat you like dirt. There is never an excuse for that. And, remember, just because she happened to give birth to you doesn't mean she was fit to raise a child or able to have a loving heart. I know my mom truly disliked me and tried to stick to me from the grave. That was the last time I ever allowed her or the rest of my family to get to me. I've moved away from my family and rarely think about them. Oh, yeah. Ever have a sister call the cops on you for "Harassment" because she was mad at you and you called her on the phone to try to find out why? You haven't LIVED until THAT happens...lol. At some point in time, ya realize they aren't worth your angst. (((Hugs)))--i do understand and I thought *I* was the only one who used to pray I was adopted and would find my bio. family who really loved me...lol. See? You're not alone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 119510, member: 1550"] Well, I was disinherited. When my mother passed away I found out. She never liked me much, and I don't see anyone in my family as they pretty much don't really know me. I refuse to let that bog me down. I'm too old, life is precious, and I concentrate on the good side of life. You know what? Your mom is sick. If you let a sick woman (I mean, who hits a grown child with a shoe???) bug you for the rest of your life, you'll be wasting it. I'll bet you have REAL "family" ie. friends who treat you like family--and your own children and maybe a husband or SO. I would try to move past the hurt. When you see your mother, know in advance that she's going to be difficult and let it bounce off of you. If you can't, see her less. Being older is no excuse for her to treat you like dirt. There is never an excuse for that. And, remember, just because she happened to give birth to you doesn't mean she was fit to raise a child or able to have a loving heart. I know my mom truly disliked me and tried to stick to me from the grave. That was the last time I ever allowed her or the rest of my family to get to me. I've moved away from my family and rarely think about them. Oh, yeah. Ever have a sister call the cops on you for "Harassment" because she was mad at you and you called her on the phone to try to find out why? You haven't LIVED until THAT happens...lol. At some point in time, ya realize they aren't worth your angst. (((Hugs)))--i do understand and I thought *I* was the only one who used to pray I was adopted and would find my bio. family who really loved me...lol. See? You're not alone. [/QUOTE]
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