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Feeling a bit disconnected and stuck in a time warp - A Vent
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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 119797" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Marcie, the "I have no one left" speech doesn't have anything to do with you(otherwise known as reality). It's all about her and the drama of being the grieving mother(I'm sure she is grieving) I have seen that some can make being the grieving mother,spouse,daughter can turn into a show. Who suffered more at the time of death of a loved one. The group will retell the stories of the grief stricken in hushed tones. </p><p></p><p>I have had the benefit of being at the bedside of many deaths. How a person reacts is very individual and very culturally based. Your mom isn't in the least bit concerned with how her speech affects you but her intended audience. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry for your loss of a brother and the loss at a chance to reestablish a relationship with him. Unfortunately, when we make difficult child choices we sometimes have consequences that are far larger and longer than is necessary. He should have forgiven you by now but it wasn't for your lack of trying. </p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 119797, member: 3"] Marcie, the "I have no one left" speech doesn't have anything to do with you(otherwise known as reality). It's all about her and the drama of being the grieving mother(I'm sure she is grieving) I have seen that some can make being the grieving mother,spouse,daughter can turn into a show. Who suffered more at the time of death of a loved one. The group will retell the stories of the grief stricken in hushed tones. I have had the benefit of being at the bedside of many deaths. How a person reacts is very individual and very culturally based. Your mom isn't in the least bit concerned with how her speech affects you but her intended audience. I'm sorry for your loss of a brother and the loss at a chance to reestablish a relationship with him. Unfortunately, when we make difficult child choices we sometimes have consequences that are far larger and longer than is necessary. He should have forgiven you by now but it wasn't for your lack of trying. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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