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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 363640" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>You know - after what you have postd about M in the past? It seems to me that she is major difficult child - so with that in mind - my thought is that you and T are doing this move FOR your Mom. She will be somewhere she can get care, she will be watched around the clock 24/7. She will have companionship with people her age. She will have no one taking advantage of her bank account. Your sister M seems like she will not really go overboard here - she's not angry about not being able to take care of your Mom - she's angry about your Mom's bank account not being able to take care of her. Whatever she got in her mind that said to herself "HEY I'm taking care of Mom, I DESERVE some cash - and since I'm the one watching Mom - I'll take Mom's cash - she owes me!!! Maybe she figured she'd just take the money and no one would ever know - but it seems to me that if she really had your Mom's best interest at heart and REALLY REALLY wanted to take CARE of your Mom - it's pretty near impossible to do that from a Casino. - not? </p><p> </p><p>She's betrayed your Mom, and since she can't blame herself (NO difficult child truly can) she has to point a little, crooked finger at someone - and the ones that will be hurt or affected or give her some kind of rebuttle? You and T. I wouldn't bandy words with her period. I would say - "You are welcome to be a part of Moms life - sans her bank account. That money is for Mom alone, and her needs and expenses." If she were to start pooh with your Mom? I wouldn't argue back - I'd laugh and shake my head - let her rant, rave - have a little hissy fit if she wants - but I wouldn't react to anything she said or did - so help me. I'd just make it out to be like she's crazy. I would reinforce with my Mom that I loved her, and have consulted T on every decision that has been made regarding this and M was informed as well, AND that all of this move is because you want to make sure she has the best possible care in a safe environment - where you care close enough to visit regularly. </p><p> </p><p>Keep in mind - M is made at herself and blaming everyone but the one in the mirror. She's probably angry she did not take out more money when she had the chance. Know what I mean?? </p><p> </p><p>You're a good daughter - you know that. Nothing you've done regarding your Mom has been without love and care, concern for her. That's wonderful - You really are a good kid. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p> </p><p>Hang in there - I'm sending you some strength. Hugs & Love - Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 363640, member: 4964"] You know - after what you have postd about M in the past? It seems to me that she is major difficult child - so with that in mind - my thought is that you and T are doing this move FOR your Mom. She will be somewhere she can get care, she will be watched around the clock 24/7. She will have companionship with people her age. She will have no one taking advantage of her bank account. Your sister M seems like she will not really go overboard here - she's not angry about not being able to take care of your Mom - she's angry about your Mom's bank account not being able to take care of her. Whatever she got in her mind that said to herself "HEY I'm taking care of Mom, I DESERVE some cash - and since I'm the one watching Mom - I'll take Mom's cash - she owes me!!! Maybe she figured she'd just take the money and no one would ever know - but it seems to me that if she really had your Mom's best interest at heart and REALLY REALLY wanted to take CARE of your Mom - it's pretty near impossible to do that from a Casino. - not? She's betrayed your Mom, and since she can't blame herself (NO difficult child truly can) she has to point a little, crooked finger at someone - and the ones that will be hurt or affected or give her some kind of rebuttle? You and T. I wouldn't bandy words with her period. I would say - "You are welcome to be a part of Moms life - sans her bank account. That money is for Mom alone, and her needs and expenses." If she were to start pooh with your Mom? I wouldn't argue back - I'd laugh and shake my head - let her rant, rave - have a little hissy fit if she wants - but I wouldn't react to anything she said or did - so help me. I'd just make it out to be like she's crazy. I would reinforce with my Mom that I loved her, and have consulted T on every decision that has been made regarding this and M was informed as well, AND that all of this move is because you want to make sure she has the best possible care in a safe environment - where you care close enough to visit regularly. Keep in mind - M is made at herself and blaming everyone but the one in the mirror. She's probably angry she did not take out more money when she had the chance. Know what I mean?? You're a good daughter - you know that. Nothing you've done regarding your Mom has been without love and care, concern for her. That's wonderful - You really are a good kid. :winking: Hang in there - I'm sending you some strength. Hugs & Love - Star [/QUOTE]
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