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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 344975" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I agree that perhaps it should be difficult child that has the vasectomy. If he can't do it, maybe he's not so anti-being a father as he says he is.</p><p></p><p>But she sounds like she has sound medical reasons too, to have her tubes tied.</p><p></p><p>I had my tubes tied after difficult child 3, because I was simply not well enough for too many reasons. The doctor had to go in to do a D & C anyway, so i got him to tie my tubes at the same time.</p><p></p><p>How is your prospective daughter in law feeling about the miscarriage? Even if she planned to get her tubes tied, doesn't mean she won't also be grieving. Let her know how you are feeling, perhaps. You can still accept her choices, but let her know that even though you accept her choices and her reasons, knowing she just lost a baby still makes you feel sad for the loss. If she's hurting a little too, it could help her know she is not alone.</p><p></p><p>How does difficult child feel about it? They really should be able to talk to one another about these sort of feelings.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 344975, member: 1991"] I agree that perhaps it should be difficult child that has the vasectomy. If he can't do it, maybe he's not so anti-being a father as he says he is. But she sounds like she has sound medical reasons too, to have her tubes tied. I had my tubes tied after difficult child 3, because I was simply not well enough for too many reasons. The doctor had to go in to do a D & C anyway, so i got him to tie my tubes at the same time. How is your prospective daughter in law feeling about the miscarriage? Even if she planned to get her tubes tied, doesn't mean she won't also be grieving. Let her know how you are feeling, perhaps. You can still accept her choices, but let her know that even though you accept her choices and her reasons, knowing she just lost a baby still makes you feel sad for the loss. If she's hurting a little too, it could help her know she is not alone. How does difficult child feel about it? They really should be able to talk to one another about these sort of feelings. Marg [/QUOTE]
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