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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 115080" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Some people will judge by how well-behaved a child is. Most won't. They understand that a child can be well-behaved because that is the way the child is and has nothing to do with the parents. Some behave out of fear. Some behave because of lucky/good parenting. </p><p></p><p>If you have doubts about your parenting, look at your other two children. They are doing well. Sometimes a child is what a child is out of choice.</p><p></p><p>I do understand how hard it is if someone asks you to help your child. If you don't, you're afraid they'll think less of you, wonder what kind of mother wouldn't help her child. If it is the child asking directly, the child usually has no hesitation in telling you what a rotten parent you are and how much you don't love them. </p><p></p><p>Susan, the best thing you can do is remember that your son is basically free of drugs in jail. He is safe for now. Make this your mantra and don't worry what others will think of you. Just know that you are doing the right thing and what is best for him for now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 115080, member: 3626"] Some people will judge by how well-behaved a child is. Most won't. They understand that a child can be well-behaved because that is the way the child is and has nothing to do with the parents. Some behave out of fear. Some behave because of lucky/good parenting. If you have doubts about your parenting, look at your other two children. They are doing well. Sometimes a child is what a child is out of choice. I do understand how hard it is if someone asks you to help your child. If you don't, you're afraid they'll think less of you, wonder what kind of mother wouldn't help her child. If it is the child asking directly, the child usually has no hesitation in telling you what a rotten parent you are and how much you don't love them. Susan, the best thing you can do is remember that your son is basically free of drugs in jail. He is safe for now. Make this your mantra and don't worry what others will think of you. Just know that you are doing the right thing and what is best for him for now. [/QUOTE]
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