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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 115431" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>Ok - all of you are right as usual. Tonight he calls again I guess when he was done with kitchen duty and they were going back to the dorms. He said the guy from the mercy ministry came to see him. He said he told him we were going to get him out and send him to rehab. I said that we had talked about it but I wasnt sure he was ready and I didnt have $500. - my difficult child told me $250. but now he says the bondsman wont do that. Anyway I kinda got upset when Iwas talking to him and told him how was I supposed to believe he was ready and what will happen if he blows it - he said he woould go back to jail and that he would be responsible. My husband says under no circumstances are we bailing him out. And then we get attitudes with eachother because I am so tired of him not understanding my emotions every now and then. He gets so irritated that I even entertain the idea of getting him out and doesnt understand what I am even thinking! I just hate to leave him somewhere where he can get worse instead of better and not have him go somewhere that is better. He says that they are not giving him anything for his nerves and that he cant sleep. He says he stopped taking his Tegretol because it made his kidneys hurt. I go back to that thinking and it gets me crazy trying to "take care" of him again. My husband says he needs to do it. He can sit in there until his court date. How will that help? He can probably still get drugs in there. He said well MOM if you cant get me out and send me to rehab just bring my Xanax and put them in my property. Even the ministry guy told hiim he couldnt take Xanax at the faciility. They would give him seomething else. Should I call the jail and ask them what they are giving him now? I just hope they offer him rehab and I hope I am not making a mistake by not trying. I just wish someone was sympathetic to my emotions every now and then. You all understand because you have been there and you are women. Well most of you anyway!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 115431, member: 3948"] Ok - all of you are right as usual. Tonight he calls again I guess when he was done with kitchen duty and they were going back to the dorms. He said the guy from the mercy ministry came to see him. He said he told him we were going to get him out and send him to rehab. I said that we had talked about it but I wasnt sure he was ready and I didnt have $500. - my difficult child told me $250. but now he says the bondsman wont do that. Anyway I kinda got upset when Iwas talking to him and told him how was I supposed to believe he was ready and what will happen if he blows it - he said he woould go back to jail and that he would be responsible. My husband says under no circumstances are we bailing him out. And then we get attitudes with eachother because I am so tired of him not understanding my emotions every now and then. He gets so irritated that I even entertain the idea of getting him out and doesnt understand what I am even thinking! I just hate to leave him somewhere where he can get worse instead of better and not have him go somewhere that is better. He says that they are not giving him anything for his nerves and that he cant sleep. He says he stopped taking his Tegretol because it made his kidneys hurt. I go back to that thinking and it gets me crazy trying to "take care" of him again. My husband says he needs to do it. He can sit in there until his court date. How will that help? He can probably still get drugs in there. He said well MOM if you cant get me out and send me to rehab just bring my Xanax and put them in my property. Even the ministry guy told hiim he couldnt take Xanax at the faciility. They would give him seomething else. Should I call the jail and ask them what they are giving him now? I just hope they offer him rehab and I hope I am not making a mistake by not trying. I just wish someone was sympathetic to my emotions every now and then. You all understand because you have been there and you are women. Well most of you anyway! [/QUOTE]
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