Thank you all so much. I feel relief just being able to talk to people that have no steak in the game and will just listen. My heart breaks for my husband being in this situation "between" us. But it breaks for me too being looked at like I'm crazy or just losing things. He keeps saying "he says he respects you. We don't understand why you think he doesn't."
He "couldn't find" his school issued laptop this morning, so dad asked me to look for it while they were gone. I lifted his mattress and found several little things of mine with a lighter and a very big knife hid.
