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Feeling disheartened re daughter :-(
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<blockquote data-quote="Gone" data-source="post: 640373"><p>She is on her own roller coaster ride , my concentration is on the safety and security of my GS</p><p></p><p>I have advised her on the law on this matter and will probably remind her again! lol ( and then leave it at that )</p><p></p><p>She had a go at me today for not ''telling her to get her ar*e in gear and go to meetings and get treatment etc when she was drinking , she said I just ''did nothing'' and then abandoned her and left her to do it on her own</p><p></p><p>I already told her she has to do it on her own , for herself and I asked her was there ANYTHING I could have said to get her to stop drinking when she was drinking? .... And she said ''NO''..</p><p></p><p>Pretty much proves my point then , was there actually anything I could do? No , would nagging her have helped? No , advising her , which I did do? No , so in what capacity did she need me to be there for her as when I was and ''did nothing'' while I was there I was enabling her , when I left , I abandoned her she thinks , but I was trying to get her to get the help for herself and land on her own 2 feet for herself which I still do and my capacity at present is to ensure my GS's safety at all times , simple as , until our relationship is hopefully restored which hopefully will come in time alongside her complete and continued sobriety! x</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gone, post: 640373"] She is on her own roller coaster ride , my concentration is on the safety and security of my GS I have advised her on the law on this matter and will probably remind her again! lol ( and then leave it at that ) She had a go at me today for not ''telling her to get her ar*e in gear and go to meetings and get treatment etc when she was drinking , she said I just ''did nothing'' and then abandoned her and left her to do it on her own I already told her she has to do it on her own , for herself and I asked her was there ANYTHING I could have said to get her to stop drinking when she was drinking? .... And she said ''NO''.. Pretty much proves my point then , was there actually anything I could do? No , would nagging her have helped? No , advising her , which I did do? No , so in what capacity did she need me to be there for her as when I was and ''did nothing'' while I was there I was enabling her , when I left , I abandoned her she thinks , but I was trying to get her to get the help for herself and land on her own 2 feet for herself which I still do and my capacity at present is to ensure my GS's safety at all times , simple as , until our relationship is hopefully restored which hopefully will come in time alongside her complete and continued sobriety! x [/QUOTE]
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