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<blockquote data-quote="Amy2355" data-source="post: 730600" data-attributes="member: 22930"><p>Wow… Thank you all for the very heartfelt conversation. It is so sad that so many of us have the same story. Truly breaks my heart, but I am also happy that I found this site!</p><p></p><p>I have 2 grandsons.</p><p>W. is 5 and I love that kid more than my life! He’s, sweet, funny, smart and just so damn cute!</p><p></p><p> L. is just 5 months and I miss him something terrible, I haven’t gotten to see him or my daughter Since Jan. 15.</p><p></p><p>One thing I am truly blessed with is my husband, I am truly lucky to have him always by my side and he’s there always for me to cry on. But I just can’t do that all the time, if he sees me upset or depressed he tries to make me feel better, but I always worry that he will get mad at her, that he will say something, and then she will be upset with him too. I don’t know why I fear that ( I guess maybe because I think well if she hates me, I don’t want her to hate him) strange I know. I’ve always been the “fixer” I am MOM I handle it all, dad only comes in if Mom needs him. Lol. We ( me and hubby) tell ourselves that can’t fix this, we didn’t do anything wrong, we raised our daughter very good, this isn’t because if US or anything that we did. I tell myself that over n over and I do believe it, but it doesn’t take this pain away that I feel. If it were JUST her, this would hurt I know, but I would maybe think K. is a lot like me, she will be ok.. But the fact that I can’t see my grandkids also is the worst. I just don’t understand.</p><p></p><p>Of course my daughter would say that I am Crazy, I don’t know my boundaries, she is fine and I need to stop. She also says she isn’t keeping my grandkids from me, Jan. 15 was the last time I have seen L. I see W. only because his dad brings him over( thank God) . </p><p></p><p> Thank you all So much for all the wonderful responses and I am going to read all the different articles you all suggested, and I have been thinking seriously about going to a counselor for myself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Amy2355, post: 730600, member: 22930"] Wow… Thank you all for the very heartfelt conversation. It is so sad that so many of us have the same story. Truly breaks my heart, but I am also happy that I found this site! I have 2 grandsons. W. is 5 and I love that kid more than my life! He’s, sweet, funny, smart and just so damn cute! L. is just 5 months and I miss him something terrible, I haven’t gotten to see him or my daughter Since Jan. 15. One thing I am truly blessed with is my husband, I am truly lucky to have him always by my side and he’s there always for me to cry on. But I just can’t do that all the time, if he sees me upset or depressed he tries to make me feel better, but I always worry that he will get mad at her, that he will say something, and then she will be upset with him too. I don’t know why I fear that ( I guess maybe because I think well if she hates me, I don’t want her to hate him) strange I know. I’ve always been the “fixer” I am MOM I handle it all, dad only comes in if Mom needs him. Lol. We ( me and hubby) tell ourselves that can’t fix this, we didn’t do anything wrong, we raised our daughter very good, this isn’t because if US or anything that we did. I tell myself that over n over and I do believe it, but it doesn’t take this pain away that I feel. If it were JUST her, this would hurt I know, but I would maybe think K. is a lot like me, she will be ok.. But the fact that I can’t see my grandkids also is the worst. I just don’t understand. Of course my daughter would say that I am Crazy, I don’t know my boundaries, she is fine and I need to stop. She also says she isn’t keeping my grandkids from me, Jan. 15 was the last time I have seen L. I see W. only because his dad brings him over( thank God) . Thank you all So much for all the wonderful responses and I am going to read all the different articles you all suggested, and I have been thinking seriously about going to a counselor for myself. [/QUOTE]
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