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<blockquote data-quote="Alejandra" data-source="post: 731369" data-attributes="member: 21917"><p>Well back here for comfort I guess and I couldn’t help but read a little of your story but is different because we have no intention to let our daughter back in our home and of course is hard and painful but is a boundarie will keep because is always the same drama , really how can she not see it?!! We are again with the same issue with our daughter with borderline personality disorder and bipolar and drug addiction but she started her recovery a little more than a year ago, she is working a full time job where she is doing great but of course now everything is falling apart (as always with her) because she decided to move in with her 55 year old boyfriend that of course I knew was just with her because after she got hit by a car, he knew she was getting some money, which she did and give that to him ( of course) he went an got a car under his name and promise her to transfer the title under her name but things start not going well between then and he ask her for $2000 to transfer the title and she did give him the money! Now he left with the car supposedly to Vegas and she is texting and calling saying she needs to get out of their place for her own safety ...really? Same story with the boyfriend she had before this one and that’s how she end up homeless so...here we go again and my question is...do I even bother to respond to her messages or phone calls? I’m trying myself very hard not to go back into my coedepency behaviors , I have learned to detach with love but sometimes is hard and I don’t know if I should respond or just ignore her....is my daughter and is painful but we have gone down this road so many times because of her wrong choices , I don’t know what else to say to her because she does not take responsibility of her choices, she always said that she is justify for what she does. I don’t want to be unloving or uncaring but what can I do, there is really nothing I can do, she is an adult and should take care of her life and not get me involved...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Alejandra, post: 731369, member: 21917"] Well back here for comfort I guess and I couldn’t help but read a little of your story but is different because we have no intention to let our daughter back in our home and of course is hard and painful but is a boundarie will keep because is always the same drama , really how can she not see it?!! We are again with the same issue with our daughter with borderline personality disorder and bipolar and drug addiction but she started her recovery a little more than a year ago, she is working a full time job where she is doing great but of course now everything is falling apart (as always with her) because she decided to move in with her 55 year old boyfriend that of course I knew was just with her because after she got hit by a car, he knew she was getting some money, which she did and give that to him ( of course) he went an got a car under his name and promise her to transfer the title under her name but things start not going well between then and he ask her for $2000 to transfer the title and she did give him the money! Now he left with the car supposedly to Vegas and she is texting and calling saying she needs to get out of their place for her own safety ...really? Same story with the boyfriend she had before this one and that’s how she end up homeless so...here we go again and my question is...do I even bother to respond to her messages or phone calls? I’m trying myself very hard not to go back into my coedepency behaviors , I have learned to detach with love but sometimes is hard and I don’t know if I should respond or just ignore her....is my daughter and is painful but we have gone down this road so many times because of her wrong choices , I don’t know what else to say to her because she does not take responsibility of her choices, she always said that she is justify for what she does. I don’t want to be unloving or uncaring but what can I do, there is really nothing I can do, she is an adult and should take care of her life and not get me involved... [/QUOTE]
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