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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 655326" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Weary, just checking in to how you are doing today.</p><p></p><p>Your daughters behavior sounds very familiar to me. My son used to call me crying hysterically begging me to help him, telling me people were after him, all sorts of lies. I was always amazed at how convincing he sounded.</p><p></p><p>Our Difficult Child do not want to admit that their choices have led to their lives being very messed up so they project the blame onto us. Sometime they will come right out and say "if you would have only helped me then I wouldn't have to steal" or they will just try to guilt us into doing something for them by telling us all kinds of things that they know will evoke fear.</p><p></p><p>You are doing an amazing job at keeping your boundaries in place. I know how draining it is to wait and wonder but it does get better with time as you fine tune the skills you have learned.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you..............</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 655326, member: 18516"] Hi Weary, just checking in to how you are doing today. Your daughters behavior sounds very familiar to me. My son used to call me crying hysterically begging me to help him, telling me people were after him, all sorts of lies. I was always amazed at how convincing he sounded. Our Difficult Child do not want to admit that their choices have led to their lives being very messed up so they project the blame onto us. Sometime they will come right out and say "if you would have only helped me then I wouldn't have to steal" or they will just try to guilt us into doing something for them by telling us all kinds of things that they know will evoke fear. You are doing an amazing job at keeping your boundaries in place. I know how draining it is to wait and wonder but it does get better with time as you fine tune the skills you have learned. Hang in there. ((HUGS)) to you.............. [/QUOTE]
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