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<blockquote data-quote="jetsam" data-source="post: 698000" data-attributes="member: 20689"><p>I understand about leading with your heart not your head... Its a struggle! My husband has done it several times not getting that it just stalls them and enables them to do more of the same. Last jan. my son got evicted from the place he was staying...4 guys renting rooms in an apartment well they lived like pigs and after 3 months the landlord kicked them out. So there he was on probably the coldest night of the year, out in the cold. MY husband couldn't stand the thought of him out there with nowhere to go and the thought of him riding the subways all night scared him. My thought was he needs to b out there to hit rock bottom to enable him to change. My hubby couldn't do it so now we have our adult son back at home again!!! I agree with you ...head not heart. Heart got us into this in the first place. good luck, praying for you</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jetsam, post: 698000, member: 20689"] I understand about leading with your heart not your head... Its a struggle! My husband has done it several times not getting that it just stalls them and enables them to do more of the same. Last jan. my son got evicted from the place he was staying...4 guys renting rooms in an apartment well they lived like pigs and after 3 months the landlord kicked them out. So there he was on probably the coldest night of the year, out in the cold. MY husband couldn't stand the thought of him out there with nowhere to go and the thought of him riding the subways all night scared him. My thought was he needs to b out there to hit rock bottom to enable him to change. My hubby couldn't do it so now we have our adult son back at home again!!! I agree with you ...head not heart. Heart got us into this in the first place. good luck, praying for you [/QUOTE]
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