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Feeling so helpless...frustrated and frightened for DS
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 695677" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thank you all.</p><p></p><p>I didnt go to Al Anon because its so hot I just stayed in. I did keep the phone off durigng is drive time to work. Turns out he tried cslling three timed in a row. Too bad. </p><p></p><p>Later I heard from him once and figured he'd be okay becsuse he was at work and has to keep the voice down. It was a fast call. Nothing new. I really sm not going to live his case with him. He needs to figure out another way. I will cut back my availability. if hed listen and not call me names, I'd be happy to lend an ear. But he isn't so I can't.</p><p></p><p>if he calls later, on the drive home, I won't answer. I've always tried to talk to him only when I'm feeling strong and up for him to biotch. If I am not up to him, I dont answer. I never keep my phone on after 9pm.</p><p></p><p>Today I am feeling like I need a break. I feel bad that I don't like to talk to him like I do with my other kids, but that in my opinion is on him.</p><p></p><p>Like most d c, he doesnt care about anyone else in the family, only talks about himself and in his case has the narcissist trait of being bored talking about anything that isn't about him.</p><p></p><p>My Dad is just like that and Dad goes off the rails too when he is angry. in fact, my dad is worse!</p><p></p><p>Anyhow going to enjoy Skyping with my daughter and grand as soon as grand wakes up. Princess and I are really close now that theres a grandchild that I adore in the picture. I will focus on those I love who are loving. It may be lazy, but its easier.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 695677, member: 1550"] Thank you all. I didnt go to Al Anon because its so hot I just stayed in. I did keep the phone off durigng is drive time to work. Turns out he tried cslling three timed in a row. Too bad. Later I heard from him once and figured he'd be okay becsuse he was at work and has to keep the voice down. It was a fast call. Nothing new. I really sm not going to live his case with him. He needs to figure out another way. I will cut back my availability. if hed listen and not call me names, I'd be happy to lend an ear. But he isn't so I can't. if he calls later, on the drive home, I won't answer. I've always tried to talk to him only when I'm feeling strong and up for him to biotch. If I am not up to him, I dont answer. I never keep my phone on after 9pm. Today I am feeling like I need a break. I feel bad that I don't like to talk to him like I do with my other kids, but that in my opinion is on him. Like most d c, he doesnt care about anyone else in the family, only talks about himself and in his case has the narcissist trait of being bored talking about anything that isn't about him. My Dad is just like that and Dad goes off the rails too when he is angry. in fact, my dad is worse! Anyhow going to enjoy Skyping with my daughter and grand as soon as grand wakes up. Princess and I are really close now that theres a grandchild that I adore in the picture. I will focus on those I love who are loving. It may be lazy, but its easier. [/QUOTE]
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