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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 137172" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I'm a big sister myself and I can't even begin to imagine what you're feeling. </p><p></p><p>Please, please, please don't feel guilty. Unless you saw her every minute of every day (and even maybe not then) there was nothing you could have done. If she did do this to herself, what she knew (that you were there) and what she felt were to far apart from each other for her to be able to reach out to you or anyone else for that matter. Logically, you may know that. But logic, of course, does absolutely nothing for your heart. I've done the what if's so many times in regards to someone I lost. While my brain knew it didn't do me any good, my heart just couldn't stop doing it. </p><p></p><p>I've said this before but get it out. You want to scream, cry and cuss? Do it. Go get a baseball bat, drive out into the country, rail at the gods and beat the h e l l out of the ground. You need to get that anger out. </p><p></p><p>And yes, things are going to be hard for a long time. But you <strong>WILL</strong> see the light at some point. You will. And H will be with you every step of the way. Sometimes you won't know it but other times you will feel her with you. I'm not much of a religious person when it comes to organized religion but I do believe. I've had experiences after losing a loved one that I truly believe weren't just dreams or my imagination. I know that it was that person helping me deal, holding me or simply checking in and saying Hey. </p><p></p><p></p><p>We are here for you and we will always be here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 137172, member: 2459"] I'm a big sister myself and I can't even begin to imagine what you're feeling. Please, please, please don't feel guilty. Unless you saw her every minute of every day (and even maybe not then) there was nothing you could have done. If she did do this to herself, what she knew (that you were there) and what she felt were to far apart from each other for her to be able to reach out to you or anyone else for that matter. Logically, you may know that. But logic, of course, does absolutely nothing for your heart. I've done the what if's so many times in regards to someone I lost. While my brain knew it didn't do me any good, my heart just couldn't stop doing it. I've said this before but get it out. You want to scream, cry and cuss? Do it. Go get a baseball bat, drive out into the country, rail at the gods and beat the h e l l out of the ground. You need to get that anger out. And yes, things are going to be hard for a long time. But you [B]WILL[/B] see the light at some point. You will. And H will be with you every step of the way. Sometimes you won't know it but other times you will feel her with you. I'm not much of a religious person when it comes to organized religion but I do believe. I've had experiences after losing a loved one that I truly believe weren't just dreams or my imagination. I know that it was that person helping me deal, holding me or simply checking in and saying Hey. We are here for you and we will always be here for you. [/QUOTE]
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