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<blockquote data-quote="dizzymum" data-source="post: 137177" data-attributes="member: 4688"><p>Hello Steely,</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry you are alone, I am sorry you have to go through this without the one person who may have made this situation bearable.</p><p>Grief has seven stages apparently and you sound angry. Get this for anger..... when I went to view my twin in the chapel of rest, the first thing I did was cuss him and shout at him. The funeral director had to leave. How could he do this to me? Didn't he know? It was absolute agony and he had done this to me, B*****D!</p><p> </p><p>I remember being surrounded by people but I was so alone. My personal pain put me on an emotional island. I could not feel. When for brief moments I forgot and laughed, I felt guilty.When I woke in the morning, before reality struck I could breathe, but had the huge come down of realisation shortly after.</p><p> </p><p>Please keep talking and go to bereavement counselling. I thought I was going mad but it was all part of the process. </p><p> </p><p>IF is a small word with many meanings. My favourite is.... IF my aunty had b***s she'd be my uncle.</p><p> </p><p>Wishing you a safe warm harbour and much love....... Dizzy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dizzymum, post: 137177, member: 4688"] Hello Steely, I am sorry you are alone, I am sorry you have to go through this without the one person who may have made this situation bearable. Grief has seven stages apparently and you sound angry. Get this for anger..... when I went to view my twin in the chapel of rest, the first thing I did was cuss him and shout at him. The funeral director had to leave. How could he do this to me? Didn't he know? It was absolute agony and he had done this to me, B*****D! I remember being surrounded by people but I was so alone. My personal pain put me on an emotional island. I could not feel. When for brief moments I forgot and laughed, I felt guilty.When I woke in the morning, before reality struck I could breathe, but had the huge come down of realisation shortly after. Please keep talking and go to bereavement counselling. I thought I was going mad but it was all part of the process. IF is a small word with many meanings. My favourite is.... IF my aunty had b***s she'd be my uncle. Wishing you a safe warm harbour and much love....... Dizzy. [/QUOTE]
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