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Feeling Torn - Needed By S.n. Kid/ Me Time
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<blockquote data-quote="ME &amp; THE BOYS" data-source="post: 161574" data-attributes="member: 3838"><p>Hi there,</p><p></p><p>I am sure many of us feel this with our special needs children. Especially if we are spending 85 + of our time with them. They worry us, they need, us, they test us, they torment us, they drain us.</p><p></p><p>I feel torn........I mean, I feel he needs me to do the better job (HIS DAD DOESN'T DO), AND I feel guilty not always being there and making ME TIME.</p><p></p><p>It is a horrible place to be in. </p><p></p><p>I am so exhausted (mentally/physically/emotionally) DRAINED, yet if I make "ME TIME", I feel just awful. However, I also feel great making "ME TIME.".</p><p></p><p>I imagine soon my husband and I will separate and through womans groups, am learning I need to make ME TIME (LESS THE GUILTY FEELINGS).</p><p></p><p>How do I go about insisting my husband have my S.N child more than 4 days out of the month? I will go insane having him 26 days. Life with him is EXTREMLY EXTREMELY HARD! DRAINING! NOT MANY SMILES IN THE DAY.</p><p></p><p>God, I feel awful feeling/saying this.</p><p></p><p>Thoughts? Does anyone feel like me? What do I do about my guilty feelings asking my husband help me out more once he leaves?</p><p></p><p>Thank you in advance for your responses.</p><p></p><p><a href="mailto:DJMNS5@Yahoo.ca">DJMNS5@Yahoo.ca</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ME & THE BOYS, post: 161574, member: 3838"] Hi there, I am sure many of us feel this with our special needs children. Especially if we are spending 85 + of our time with them. They worry us, they need, us, they test us, they torment us, they drain us. I feel torn........I mean, I feel he needs me to do the better job (HIS DAD DOESN'T DO), AND I feel guilty not always being there and making ME TIME. It is a horrible place to be in. I am so exhausted (mentally/physically/emotionally) DRAINED, yet if I make "ME TIME", I feel just awful. However, I also feel great making "ME TIME.". I imagine soon my husband and I will separate and through womans groups, am learning I need to make ME TIME (LESS THE GUILTY FEELINGS). How do I go about insisting my husband have my S.N child more than 4 days out of the month? I will go insane having him 26 days. Life with him is EXTREMLY EXTREMELY HARD! DRAINING! NOT MANY SMILES IN THE DAY. God, I feel awful feeling/saying this. Thoughts? Does anyone feel like me? What do I do about my guilty feelings asking my husband help me out more once he leaves? Thank you in advance for your responses. [email]DJMNS5@Yahoo.ca[/email] [/QUOTE]
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