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<blockquote data-quote="JaneBetty" data-source="post: 701934" data-attributes="member: 20814"><p>Rusty, we dealt with the same things you are experiencing with our 26 year old daughter, who struggles with mental health issues. Sleeping all day, up all night, vaping in the house, dirty dishes in her room, her stuff everywhere, numerous promises to find work, inability to keep jobs, refusal to stick with medications and counseling etc, etc, etc. </p><p></p><p>This dragged on for almost five years before things boiled over and everyone woke up.</p><p></p><p>You deserve a quiet, orderly house, and the use of YOUR car every night! I agree with the others that you should give her a deadline to move out, and you must find the courage to follow through with the deadline. It will be difficult, and you will worry about her, but she needs to start dealing with the consequences of how she is choosing to live her life. Better now than later. I would encourage your parents to stand firm with you by convincing them that your daughter is not benefiting from avoiding adulthood while living in your house or theirs. </p><p></p><p>Good luck and keep posting : ) <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JaneBetty, post: 701934, member: 20814"] Rusty, we dealt with the same things you are experiencing with our 26 year old daughter, who struggles with mental health issues. Sleeping all day, up all night, vaping in the house, dirty dishes in her room, her stuff everywhere, numerous promises to find work, inability to keep jobs, refusal to stick with medications and counseling etc, etc, etc. This dragged on for almost five years before things boiled over and everyone woke up. You deserve a quiet, orderly house, and the use of YOUR car every night! I agree with the others that you should give her a deadline to move out, and you must find the courage to follow through with the deadline. It will be difficult, and you will worry about her, but she needs to start dealing with the consequences of how she is choosing to live her life. Better now than later. I would encourage your parents to stand firm with you by convincing them that your daughter is not benefiting from avoiding adulthood while living in your house or theirs. Good luck and keep posting : ) :notalone: [/QUOTE]
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