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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 107225" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>If you don't think - you could EVER make it to homicidal - PM me - </p><p></p><p>I'm really worried about you. The worst thing I ever said to myself regarding my ex was "I know him better than you - (battered women's shelter counselor) he won't hurt me. </p><p></p><p>With my son in the car LYF - he loosened all the lug nuts on my car, he sent me dead animals, dead flowers - sent sympathy cards to my parents telling them he was going to do something to me - threatened to kill us all. I didn't know him better than they did then - I went into hiding, and for three years I got about 2 - 3 hours sleep a night. Emotionally I had severe PTSD. </p><p></p><p>Don't compare my situation to yours = but DO read the things I've written about please. Get some help, and I mean more than going to the police - seek help at the womens shelter. IT does NOT mean that you have to stay there - it means you are willing to talk to people who KNOW what these men are capable of and they KNOW how to keep you prepared "in case". NO one is saying he will do something - but honestly - he's already done more than you thought he would when you left the court room that day and bought up all the everclear in an effort to save him - </p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry for your situation. I can only tell you it will get better, but you've got to be willing to say "I DON'T know this man and I Don't know what he will do." </p><p></p><p>I have more information if you'd like it about how this is affecting your kids - where to point you in your area if you don't know. I'm here - I'll help. I can even tell you things about how to erase stuff on your computer so he doesn't get it and see where you've been going if you think that's possible. </p><p></p><p>PM me - I'm here, I've been where you are, and I really care. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 107225, member: 4964"] If you don't think - you could EVER make it to homicidal - PM me - I'm really worried about you. The worst thing I ever said to myself regarding my ex was "I know him better than you - (battered women's shelter counselor) he won't hurt me. With my son in the car LYF - he loosened all the lug nuts on my car, he sent me dead animals, dead flowers - sent sympathy cards to my parents telling them he was going to do something to me - threatened to kill us all. I didn't know him better than they did then - I went into hiding, and for three years I got about 2 - 3 hours sleep a night. Emotionally I had severe PTSD. Don't compare my situation to yours = but DO read the things I've written about please. Get some help, and I mean more than going to the police - seek help at the womens shelter. IT does NOT mean that you have to stay there - it means you are willing to talk to people who KNOW what these men are capable of and they KNOW how to keep you prepared "in case". NO one is saying he will do something - but honestly - he's already done more than you thought he would when you left the court room that day and bought up all the everclear in an effort to save him - I'm so sorry for your situation. I can only tell you it will get better, but you've got to be willing to say "I DON'T know this man and I Don't know what he will do." I have more information if you'd like it about how this is affecting your kids - where to point you in your area if you don't know. I'm here - I'll help. I can even tell you things about how to erase stuff on your computer so he doesn't get it and see where you've been going if you think that's possible. PM me - I'm here, I've been where you are, and I really care. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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