I am in Canada and a year ago after many many tests they said one of my 3 daughters has ODD and my son has ODD severe and Conduct disorder moderate. For the last year I have been going on sprees trying to find out what i do now, specifically tips on parenting children with CD so i can do the best job possible and hopefully turn this thing around. the daughters ODD i find fairly easy to cope with but the CD is harder and its not so much coping myself as that EVERYONE shuts my child out , no one wants him near them , bus drivers threaten to quit, he cant make friends and this makes him sadder even family shuns us becuase they just cant deal with it and i really need to get this under control so he can have friends and see family and know something that is not so lonely. it breaks my heart that no one will play with him. that he is always left out. i make hundreds of calls and each call results in different set of numbers who give me more numbers and no one seems to be able to give me a starting point. if he had ADHD which is what they were first looking for there would be loads of community information services and support but becuase it is conduct disorder i got nothing. Where do you start? its like this magic secret information no one can tell me. i have even gone so far as to call child services to ask them if they can help me ...find help for me to better parent my son and they just say they cant help me. where do you find help? where do you begin? this city is so short on medical staff the health nurses cant even find me a pediatrician to take us so we can start getting referals to whatever there is to refer to! what is step one? where can i find some good information on parenting tactics? thank you!