Do you have a family-organization in your Providence? If you call the Federation of Families for Children's Mental Health-- put that in your search engine--call their toll free number and ask them if they know if your Providence has a family organization. If so, they should be able to help you. Also, if you email your information to MACMHC2@aol.com, they will help you free of charge, to find the appropriate services that you need. I know I have read
a great deal on conduct disorder written by doctors from Canada. You may also want to call the nearest University, that has a School of Psychology, and ask them for help. If you decide to contact MACMHC, you will need to give them a list of who you have called and what you have tried as not to duplicate work. I wish you luck. It is difficult to find the comprehensive care that your family needs, but I know you can do it. Good luck!!