Hello again...Hmm, no responses, lol, oh well. I know SOMEONE here still cares about me and my family! ;-)
Just found out from daughter in law that young difficult child WILL BE RELEASED in December....
I'm pretty nervous about this.
What I didn't tell you all before is that husband and I are trying to sell our house. When easy child goes back to college next week we won't have ANY young people living with us!!! Hard to believe huh after all the years of taking in the kids friends.
So...the house has been recarpeted, wood floors sanded and restained...now just some painting to do and patch up work...oh and husband needs to finish the fence. Then, we are scheduled to put the house on the market early to mid October.
I am SO HOPING that the house has a contract on it before young difficult child is released and comes to our home to live. He is quite a messy person and I know how quickly one has to leave the house when it is "showing".
husband just told me that it looks like he needs to go and visit young difficult child to outline expectations.
We cannot have him drinking or abusing pain medications again...Or he will have to find another place to live.
And of course he did not go through any kind of rehabilitation for drugs and alcohol in prison as he wanted to take the "quickest route home"...sigh, and it appears he is getting his way.
Safe P...which is the prison program that oldest difficult child went through for his stealing in conjunction with Meth use, could have been an option for young difficult child had he told his lawyer and judge about his pain medication abuse and alcohol abuse...but he did not.
I know daughter in law is thrilled. I am happy for her and ...??? the kids, I think.
We will find out just how serious young difficult child is about changing his life.
Nervous...
LMS
ps...Please let me know if I have said/done ANYTHING to offend anyone here. If so I am so very sorry in advance....Was just surprised that no one responded to this post yet.