LMS, good to "see" you. It's such a difficult balance - wanting to help our difficult child's to not fall into a bottomless pit and yet, trying to detach so that they don't pull us into their drama. My hope is that young difficult child has had time to rethink his life and the choices he's made, and that he and his wife and children can move on from here in a new direction. Hugs to you. I know how difficult it is to worry about them.
As for downsizing, good for you! Good to hear things are going well with you.
Hugs,
Deb
