Apple. Many times I have suggested my child apply for subsidized housing, and he has balked. I guess I could try to force him, but...
I think he resists independence. He wants to be near us.
He speaks about SSI as being short-term and expects that he will get it together within the next few years to be able to leave the support behind.
Contradictory and paradoxical.
I think he is in the process of deciding to take a stand about himself and his life. At least that is my hope.