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First thing in morning happy-middle/late afternoon angry- plus possible ex trouble
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 497118" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I'd want to think you ex knows that parenting is more than the type of house or if there are two parents on site. For the kids sake. If he is a good dad then you should both have contact with the kids in my opinion but where they live, I'd like to think those decisions are made fairly but I know they are often not. </p><p></p><p>It makes sense that your son comes back out of any energy to be able to hold it together. Until you do your evaluation etc. you wont know exactly what is making that so but it makes total sense. LOL I DO KNOW That does not help! Sorry, as my son came home yesterday totally upset with ME for what happened at school and everything I did was wrong even putting his new scooter together which he had asked me to do in the morning. He focused on taking it apart and I was supposed to wait for him (Not a misunderstanding either... he wanted it all ready to go so he could go right away with his Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker) he was just mad and so every little thing is wrong in those times. </p><p></p><p>I too am sick of being pushed and hit. It was better for a couple of days and then yesterday he saw me at school and came up to me in the library and started pounding on me (Of course I didn't know at the time all the other 8th graders got to go see their future high schools and they had kept him back). There are just a million things that it could all really be about. Since it seems you have lowered the stress in the morning and it has affected him so positively, likely he needs that at school too. </p><p></p><p>Sorry it is so rough. I have had well over a decade of this and it is not fun much of the time, that is for sure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 497118, member: 12886"] I'd want to think you ex knows that parenting is more than the type of house or if there are two parents on site. For the kids sake. If he is a good dad then you should both have contact with the kids in my opinion but where they live, I'd like to think those decisions are made fairly but I know they are often not. It makes sense that your son comes back out of any energy to be able to hold it together. Until you do your evaluation etc. you wont know exactly what is making that so but it makes total sense. LOL I DO KNOW That does not help! Sorry, as my son came home yesterday totally upset with ME for what happened at school and everything I did was wrong even putting his new scooter together which he had asked me to do in the morning. He focused on taking it apart and I was supposed to wait for him (Not a misunderstanding either... he wanted it all ready to go so he could go right away with his Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker) he was just mad and so every little thing is wrong in those times. I too am sick of being pushed and hit. It was better for a couple of days and then yesterday he saw me at school and came up to me in the library and started pounding on me (Of course I didn't know at the time all the other 8th graders got to go see their future high schools and they had kept him back). There are just a million things that it could all really be about. Since it seems you have lowered the stress in the morning and it has affected him so positively, likely he needs that at school too. Sorry it is so rough. I have had well over a decade of this and it is not fun much of the time, that is for sure. [/QUOTE]
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