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<blockquote data-quote="KTMom91" data-source="post: 352534" data-attributes="member: 4040"><p>With both my divorces (Hubby is Husband 3.0), I was sad because of what could have been, and yet there was a touch of relief that there was no more arguing, no more passive-aggressive BS, no more (fill in the blank). Still, I felt as though I was starting all over again, and wasn't quite sure what I was supposed to do. There are no right answers; it's about building a life that feels safe and comfortable for you and the kids.</p><p></p><p>A book I read during my first divorce said that a "grieving rule of thumb" was to allow one month for every year you were together before making any major changes, if possible. I didn't follow that the first time, and made an even bigger mess for myself. The second time, I tried it, and things went somewhat easier for me. Many hugs for you and the kids. This is never an easy situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KTMom91, post: 352534, member: 4040"] With both my divorces (Hubby is Husband 3.0), I was sad because of what could have been, and yet there was a touch of relief that there was no more arguing, no more passive-aggressive BS, no more (fill in the blank). Still, I felt as though I was starting all over again, and wasn't quite sure what I was supposed to do. There are no right answers; it's about building a life that feels safe and comfortable for you and the kids. A book I read during my first divorce said that a "grieving rule of thumb" was to allow one month for every year you were together before making any major changes, if possible. I didn't follow that the first time, and made an even bigger mess for myself. The second time, I tried it, and things went somewhat easier for me. Many hugs for you and the kids. This is never an easy situation. [/QUOTE]
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