We are the gaurdians of 5 1/2 year old twins, a boy and girl, who have just recently been diagnosed with ODD, the boy, and Anxiety issues, maybe some sensory issues, the girl, and possibly ADHD, both. I have done a lot of research already and had pretty much diagnosed them before we took them to start counselling. My question is, while we seem to have a pretty good handle on our anixious and sensory overloaded girl, our ODD boy has us somewhat stumped on how to handle him, this seems to be especially difficult on my husband who just wants to argue him down, and it doesn't work, just makes it worse and frustrates me immensely. Why is it men have such and easier time with girls and seem to expect so much out of the boys? Anyway, any advice would be more than welcomed.