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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 495266" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>It isn't fair - but its a broken relationship. Not because of what you did or didn't do - but because of others. YOU can't undo the damage. There is a slim chance that years will go by, and something will happen to show the true colors of the "others" to her, which might adjust her perspective... but there is little you can do now, other than continue to stay neutral. Sorry, witz. Its not supposed to go this way. Even in tough relationships like I have with my Mom, its better than that, but... we didn't have anyone deliberately trying to destroy the relationship. The hurt comes from your daughter - but she is hurting too. She just doesn't know it, because part of her is "locked away", and if she's like me, she can't face the pain that goes with, so... a lot gets lost in avoiding the pain.</p><p></p><p>{{hugs}}</p><p></p><p>p.s. I'd still find a way to send a thoughtful gift, though. Its part of staying neutral.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 495266, member: 11791"] It isn't fair - but its a broken relationship. Not because of what you did or didn't do - but because of others. YOU can't undo the damage. There is a slim chance that years will go by, and something will happen to show the true colors of the "others" to her, which might adjust her perspective... but there is little you can do now, other than continue to stay neutral. Sorry, witz. Its not supposed to go this way. Even in tough relationships like I have with my Mom, its better than that, but... we didn't have anyone deliberately trying to destroy the relationship. The hurt comes from your daughter - but she is hurting too. She just doesn't know it, because part of her is "locked away", and if she's like me, she can't face the pain that goes with, so... a lot gets lost in avoiding the pain. {{hugs}} p.s. I'd still find a way to send a thoughtful gift, though. Its part of staying neutral. [/QUOTE]
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