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FOO bad affects on our own children...did it happen?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 674342" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks, Copa. I miss being here, but nothing is really going on. I feel good about my FOO being in the past and my own family is pretty awesome, perhaps because my FOO had NO influence over them. My hub heard my mom on the phone and was there for my sister's police calls on us and also her phone calls to her to "tattle" on me, which he thought was pretty weird. My kids, at least Sonic, Jumper and Princess have heard my sister talking to me on my cell phone as my phones have been easy to hear (from t he other end). Princess can't stand my sister. I have 100% support from them and Bart too who has seen the cut offs and thinks it's "stupid of her" (his words). My mother is no longer in t he forefront of my mind since Sis is gone. Yet I'm not gone to her...it seems she still reads my stuff since she actually posted here about me when I had my accident...lol Who thinks about this stuff when hearing their sister has been in a serioius accident?</p><p></p><p>"Oh! I know what I'll do! I'll post about it on the forum where she goes." If somebody I loved was in a car accident, I would BE THERE or try to stay in the loop, not think about some forum. Of course, that's the point. She doesn't care about me at all, although my father did buy flowers and send it in his, her and my brother's name. It was a farce though...</p><p></p><p>If it were me, that would have been the last thing on my mind.</p><p></p><p>My brother is a molecule to me. He has been gone from the area and my life since he moved to NJ.</p><p></p><p>Now...you have all been talking a lot about your adult kids and the angst they are causing you.I read and feel terrible so I don't post. It is not going on with me and I don't want to butt in when I am not in the same boat, if that makes sense.</p><p></p><p>Also,since Sis still reads this stuff, maybe I can stop her "me" obsession by not posting here as much. I want her to forget about me, like I usually forget about her.</p><p></p><p>I wanted to keep my kids away from FOO. My husband talked to my mom only once and once was enough for both of us. She did not come to my wedding. Nobody missed her. She thought she was punishing me, but things were smoother without her.</p><p></p><p>My identity is tied up in my family of choice.</p><p></p><p>I will post when I have something to add. Right now (crossing fingers) things are good. And God was good to me in the accident. Seriously, I'm lucky I am alive. That to me means I'm here for a reason...and it's not to obsess over my past. The accident sort of changed my priorities....</p><p></p><p>Love to you and Cedar and everyone else!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 674342, member: 1550"] Thanks, Copa. I miss being here, but nothing is really going on. I feel good about my FOO being in the past and my own family is pretty awesome, perhaps because my FOO had NO influence over them. My hub heard my mom on the phone and was there for my sister's police calls on us and also her phone calls to her to "tattle" on me, which he thought was pretty weird. My kids, at least Sonic, Jumper and Princess have heard my sister talking to me on my cell phone as my phones have been easy to hear (from t he other end). Princess can't stand my sister. I have 100% support from them and Bart too who has seen the cut offs and thinks it's "stupid of her" (his words). My mother is no longer in t he forefront of my mind since Sis is gone. Yet I'm not gone to her...it seems she still reads my stuff since she actually posted here about me when I had my accident...lol Who thinks about this stuff when hearing their sister has been in a serioius accident? "Oh! I know what I'll do! I'll post about it on the forum where she goes." If somebody I loved was in a car accident, I would BE THERE or try to stay in the loop, not think about some forum. Of course, that's the point. She doesn't care about me at all, although my father did buy flowers and send it in his, her and my brother's name. It was a farce though... If it were me, that would have been the last thing on my mind. My brother is a molecule to me. He has been gone from the area and my life since he moved to NJ. Now...you have all been talking a lot about your adult kids and the angst they are causing you.I read and feel terrible so I don't post. It is not going on with me and I don't want to butt in when I am not in the same boat, if that makes sense. Also,since Sis still reads this stuff, maybe I can stop her "me" obsession by not posting here as much. I want her to forget about me, like I usually forget about her. I wanted to keep my kids away from FOO. My husband talked to my mom only once and once was enough for both of us. She did not come to my wedding. Nobody missed her. She thought she was punishing me, but things were smoother without her. My identity is tied up in my family of choice. I will post when I have something to add. Right now (crossing fingers) things are good. And God was good to me in the accident. Seriously, I'm lucky I am alive. That to me means I'm here for a reason...and it's not to obsess over my past. The accident sort of changed my priorities.... Love to you and Cedar and everyone else!!! [/QUOTE]
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