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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 225139" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>We're back from the family sesion. To answer any questions husband is the bio father. husband has never, ever laid a finger on easy child. In fact easy child has never, ever, even been punished. Generally easy child is the boss, and tells us what's what and we bend over backwards to appease him. It's ok, he's a good person and there would never even be a reason to yell at him, much less punish him. We love him, he's very moral, and doesn't cause us a moments worry.</p><p></p><p>The family session was mainly about easy child and husband's relationship. And how husband and I have to be on the same page. easy child 's complaint against us was that we threatened him with taking the computer out of his room if he didn't do his homework. We have never actually done that, however. That is his main beef with us, it causes him stress. Also, once husband asked him to turn up the therostat and easy child didn't want to do that. He does agree it's ok for him to take out the trash once every other week. He shares that job with my other easy child. </p><p></p><p>That was what we discussed. easy child seemed 10 times better, he was talking and told us the skills he learned for coping and what he'll do if he feels like this again. He thinks the medicine is helping. </p><p></p><p>husband has been a mess. He's started smoking, which he hadn't done in years. Last night he told me he would never hurt easy child. Although I'm sure last night those words hurt him. We need family counseling, and we'll do whatever is recommended. husband and I have been together since high school. Generally, until today his attitiude toward anyone needing counseling, thereapy. etc.. is they were a weak person. I think alot of people have this attitude, men more than women. Also more men are reluctant to seek help for themselves I think, thinking they are weak.-Alyssa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 225139, member: 2668"] We're back from the family sesion. To answer any questions husband is the bio father. husband has never, ever laid a finger on easy child. In fact easy child has never, ever, even been punished. Generally easy child is the boss, and tells us what's what and we bend over backwards to appease him. It's ok, he's a good person and there would never even be a reason to yell at him, much less punish him. We love him, he's very moral, and doesn't cause us a moments worry. The family session was mainly about easy child and husband's relationship. And how husband and I have to be on the same page. easy child 's complaint against us was that we threatened him with taking the computer out of his room if he didn't do his homework. We have never actually done that, however. That is his main beef with us, it causes him stress. Also, once husband asked him to turn up the therostat and easy child didn't want to do that. He does agree it's ok for him to take out the trash once every other week. He shares that job with my other easy child. That was what we discussed. easy child seemed 10 times better, he was talking and told us the skills he learned for coping and what he'll do if he feels like this again. He thinks the medicine is helping. husband has been a mess. He's started smoking, which he hadn't done in years. Last night he told me he would never hurt easy child. Although I'm sure last night those words hurt him. We need family counseling, and we'll do whatever is recommended. husband and I have been together since high school. Generally, until today his attitiude toward anyone needing counseling, thereapy. etc.. is they were a weak person. I think alot of people have this attitude, men more than women. Also more men are reluctant to seek help for themselves I think, thinking they are weak.-Alyssa [/QUOTE]
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