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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 540381" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there and welcome <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Sorry you have to be here though.</p><p></p><p>I am curious about his PSTD. This seems to indicate that this child has had a rather chaotic, difficult life. How were his early years? Did he have one consistent caregiver or was he kind of given from Dad to Mom to Grandma to Auntie and back...was he neglected or abused? Adopted? I think he is acting like a child who has an attachment disorder and if I'm right (not sure I am) then his early life must have been very unpredictable for him so that he has decided that he trusts nobody except himself. This would explain his behaviors and seemingly lack of a conscience. It won't make them easier and if he does have a form of reactive attachment disorder, it is a biotch to treat, but it IS an explanation. Was he sexually abused? Beaten? What caused his PTSD? This is never a good sign or diagnosis for a young child. </p><p></p><p>secondly, are you sure you have the right man for dealing with your children? in my opinion it's not a good idea to make a long term commitment to somebody who dislikes your c hild. At some point, you will probably have to choose and who will you choose? Probably your son. If he hits your child or yells at him and makes no attempt to understand him at all (and this is just a guess) or considers him born a bad seed...well, I'd think twice. </p><p></p><p>I would call the police if he got violent, but, depending on his issue, it may not do any good at all.</p><p></p><p>Has your son ever been in intensive counseling? Has he ever had a complete neuropsychologist evaluation? Is his father in the picture? Are there an y psychiatric problems on either side of your sons GENETIC family tree (yes, this includes father even if your son never met him...your son has 50% of his DNA). I'm guessing there is a story here. The more we k now, the more we can help.</p><p></p><p>I am going to post a link about Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) here so you can see if it applies in any way. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is reactive attachment disorder: Keep us posted and tell us more!</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.helpguide.org/mental/parenting_bonding_reactive_attachment_disorder.htm" target="_blank">http://www.helpguide.org/mental/parenting_bonding_reactive_attachment_disorder.htm</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 540381, member: 1550"] Hi there and welcome :) Sorry you have to be here though. I am curious about his PSTD. This seems to indicate that this child has had a rather chaotic, difficult life. How were his early years? Did he have one consistent caregiver or was he kind of given from Dad to Mom to Grandma to Auntie and back...was he neglected or abused? Adopted? I think he is acting like a child who has an attachment disorder and if I'm right (not sure I am) then his early life must have been very unpredictable for him so that he has decided that he trusts nobody except himself. This would explain his behaviors and seemingly lack of a conscience. It won't make them easier and if he does have a form of reactive attachment disorder, it is a biotch to treat, but it IS an explanation. Was he sexually abused? Beaten? What caused his PTSD? This is never a good sign or diagnosis for a young child. secondly, are you sure you have the right man for dealing with your children? in my opinion it's not a good idea to make a long term commitment to somebody who dislikes your c hild. At some point, you will probably have to choose and who will you choose? Probably your son. If he hits your child or yells at him and makes no attempt to understand him at all (and this is just a guess) or considers him born a bad seed...well, I'd think twice. I would call the police if he got violent, but, depending on his issue, it may not do any good at all. Has your son ever been in intensive counseling? Has he ever had a complete neuropsychologist evaluation? Is his father in the picture? Are there an y psychiatric problems on either side of your sons GENETIC family tree (yes, this includes father even if your son never met him...your son has 50% of his DNA). I'm guessing there is a story here. The more we k now, the more we can help. I am going to post a link about Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) here so you can see if it applies in any way. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is reactive attachment disorder: Keep us posted and tell us more! [URL]http://www.helpguide.org/mental/parenting_bonding_reactive_attachment_disorder.htm[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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